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Does the 72 hour pill go on my record?

Q.   will the 72 hour pill go on my doctors record? really worried, just had sex and was unprotected :S i no it was stupid of me..but i wanna get the 72 hour pill but my mum doesnt know ive lost my virginity? any ideas???? please help x...

A.   15 August 2007: hun i went through it and honestly im glad i did cause you realise your the one person you can rely on... xx... (read in full...)

Does the 72 hour pill go on my record?

Q.   will the 72 hour pill go on my doctors record? really worried, just had sex and was unprotected :S i no it was stupid of me..but i wanna get the 72 hour pill but my mum doesnt know ive lost my virginity? any ideas???? please help x...

A.   15 August 2007: and its better to take it within 24 hours good luck I know its scary but youl get through it xx ... (read in full...)

Does the 72 hour pill go on my record?

Q.   will the 72 hour pill go on my doctors record? really worried, just had sex and was unprotected :S i no it was stupid of me..but i wanna get the 72 hour pill but my mum doesnt know ive lost my virginity? any ideas???? please help x...

A.   15 August 2007: go to the family planning clinic if you have one its free and they give you advice and no one can find outxx ... (read in full...)

I'm just really confused because he hurt me and I don't really want anything to do with him but I just can't stop thinking about him.

Q.   I used to go out with this guy, and he really loved me. But he dumped me by text and it wrecked me. I thought I was over him, but now I realised that I'm not and part of me is saying that I do love him but I really dont want to love him. Now I'm ...

A.   15 August 2007: some people do it over text because they dont want to see you hurt .. you can do better and tell yourseldf that just smile when things get you down. I know id try get in contact with him but dont cause he doesnt deserve your time of day xx... (read in full...)

My girlfriend loved me sooooooo much but after 6 months she suddenly said that she is not intrested in me and I really don't know why...? I didn't do anything bad...

Q.   My girlfriend loved me sooooooo much but after 6 months she suddenly said that she is not intrested in me and I really don't know why...? I didn't do anything bad... ...

A.   15 August 2007: give her some space dont get into contact with her till she makes the effort to speak to u.. playing hard to get is sometimes good xx... (read in full...)

I've never been able to cum and no matter what I try different and how hard I try to cum I just can't.

Q.   Hi, I am an 18 year old female and I've only been with 3 guys sexually but have had sex with those 3 guys a lot but I've never been able to cum and no matter what I try different and how hard I try to cum I just can't. Is somthing wrong with me? ...

A.   14 August 2007: im 18 too and ive only come once lol theres nothing wrong with you just get get turned on till you know you cant take being teased anymore by oral maybe then have sex xx... (read in full...)

Will bandaging my stomach up to not look fat do anything bad to my body?

Q.   Well my family says I'm tubby, my brother says it the most. I hate it and started to bandage my stomach so I don't look fat. I do this all day and I leave it on when I go to sleep. Will bandaging my stomach up to not look fat do anything bad to my ...

A.   14 August 2007: your still young dont worry about it youl lose your puppy fat just exercise and eat healthier ... dont bandage yourself up brothers just say things to upset you they dont think and speak to your mum tell her how the way they call you names is ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex, but i'm scared.

Q.   ok i'm 13 and me and my bf who is 14 have been going out for 3 in a half months i love him with all my heart but he wants to have sex in La in 2 weeks i want to but im scared i dont want to get pregnant what do i do HELP!!!!! plez ...

A.   14 August 2007: hun if ur scared ur not ready if he cant except that then hes not worth loosing your vigingity too.. and think about it your 13 one day youl look back and think oh my god i lost my virginity when i was 13 your not mature enough to deal with sex just ... (read in full...)

How can women want to touch someone with a small penis?

Q.   Is it wierd to go from wee-man to Andre the Giant I have a serious problem, Im not a virgin but See i fear sleeping with women alot cause i have a terrible fear of being seen....well... soft. I have a very tiny thingthang when im soft ...

A.   14 August 2007: its not the size babe its what you do if your not comfortable start out with oral and trust big penis's arent that great yer the size is different but sometimes it can hurt trust me go with what you have there are more ways to make the bedroom more ... (read in full...)

I still have feelings for him but am trying to get over him...

Q.   A month ago I split up with my first boyfriend of nearly 2 years because he kissed another girl. Two weeks after I asked him to meet me so that we could have a chat and see if we could be mates, that went well, he told me that he was going out with ...

A.   14 August 2007: you split up a month ago.. thats not enough time to get over someone. ignore him and treat yourself lots of shopping . i know what your going through and its hard im going through it at the moment.. hes not worth it if hes lying and being horrible ... (read in full...)

Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!

Q.   Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!...

A.   13 August 2007: everyone is different some people dont bleed because cause the the wall can be broken by using tampax or even from horse riding .. its not worth worrying about if he doesnt trust you xx... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend and her mates are going to try and ruin things with my new girlfriend and I by lying to her.

Q.   Me and My ex girlfriend have split up for about 3 weeks now and I dumped her because we started having arguments and we never really took off if you know what I mean? I had many people tell me she was cheating on me with work mates and so forth. ...

A.   13 August 2007: first of all tell your new girlfriend that your ex will do anything to get you apart and that kinda makes you want to make things work even more to prove that it will work and .laugh at you ex tell her she looks pathetic and needs to get over it ... (read in full...)

Does anyone have any good tips on getting back together with your ex?

Q.   Does anyone have any good tips on getting back together with your ex? My ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. I know he broke up with me for his own reasons. He is really insecure, has a lot of debt, isn't confident in his job, etc. I want to ...

A.   13 August 2007: dont!! if he wants to be with you hed talk to you there arnet any tips to getting back with an ex because thats why we call them ex... You may love him but youl hurt yourself if you keep the hope that things will get better if you still want to be ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when you ask a girl out, but she replys with ... a "I don't want to hurt you" comment?

Q.   What does it mean when you ask a girl out, but she replys with ... a "I don't want to hurt you" comment?...

A.   13 August 2007: because shes hurting maybe shes not over someone or shes afraid to get close to you or she doesnt see you in that way.. ... (read in full...)

I love my girlfriend but I'm not sure whether or not she loves me, she says she does but I'm not sure, or maybe I just have trust issues?

Q.   I love my girlfriend but I'm not sure whether or not she loves me, she says she does but I'm not sure, or maybe I just have trust issues? I don't know what to do, I've blown too many relationships off before because of this feeling and I've ...

A.   13 August 2007: if she doesnt love you then y is she with you..I know alot of people who have this an ex for a start .. if you mess her about cause your confused your going to leave her in your position not being able to trust anyone.. talk to her if you love her ... (read in full...)

He says I am a nut case...

Q.   My partner of 6 years had 2 flings, the second resulting in him wanting me to move out of our home and move her in. He has bought me out of the property but my stuff is still there waiting to be put into storage. I went round our old home tonight...

A.   13 August 2007: awww hun thats harsh wat a loser if he cant consider your feelings he is a waste of your time.. all you have to think now is that u got out of it sooner than later. i know what you mean my ex was the nicest person i met till about six months ago and ... (read in full...)

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