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My friend will have threesomes with my girlfriend, but refuses to with his girlfriend, why is he being selfish?

Q.   I’ve have had mmf threesomes that had involved girlfriends and my best friend. After we did the first time he asked if we can do it again with other girlfriends. So at least with 4 different girls we’ve had threesomes. It has been cool, and its ...

A.   2 January 2008: if his girlfriends don't want to you can't force them to and if you're starting to get negative or jealous feelings from this perhaps you should stop before your friendship is ruined by it. Also you speak as if you have no choice. next time he ... (read in full...)

Am I some sort of sexual deviant?

Q.   Alright, so this question is going to be a bit weird, but here goes... My friend sent me a site the other day as a joke, and when I opened the link it was hermaphrodite porn. And for whatever reason I got turned on by it. I'm not gay beause I...

A.   2 January 2008: No it is natural to feel curious or even turned on by new and exciting things. but if you feel uncomfortable or guilty about it then it's probably best not to look again. ... (read in full...)

Any advice on what to do with my hymen problem????

Q.   Heya. I used a tampon once and it really hurt me. So i haven't done it since. My boyfriend and i are thinking about sex but i am really scared of the pain. I did horseback riding for 8 years and i have done football, but my hymen is still ...

A.   2 January 2008: tampons can be quite dry so this could have added to the pain. try buying some lubricant like KY jelly from a pharmacist (buy it with tampons and people won't bat an eyelid). try inserting different (CLEAN!) things using the lubricant. a tampon, a ... (read in full...)

How do you have cyber sex?!

Q.   How EXACTLY do you have cyber sex? Becuase i've been going out with this girl for a while now over the net and she's implied she would like to do it... but i'm not sure if i want to..... ...

A.   2 January 2008: Cyber sex is usually done in a chatroom or on something like msn. It includes both partners role playing that they are having sex, saying things that they are doing like removing clothing, touching the other person etc. It can be a very intimate ... (read in full...)

I have pushed my boyfriend to the limit and feel I have ruined our relationship, can it be saved?

Q.   I love my boyfriend so much but I think I am killing my relationship. I cant stop myself from being so intense and bitchy. I know we're at breaking point as I think I have pushed him to the limit. he's been so pateint and he used to love me so ...

A.   2 January 2008: First of all you need to be honest with him. However you feel best to express this - i recommend either taking him out for a meal and saying "i have something to talk to you about or if that seems to nerve wracking, write him an old fashioned ... (read in full...)

His ex makes me feel so insecure, how do I get over this??

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend a year. We have a very stable relationship, rarely argue, I'm not an insecure or jealous type. He has plenty of girl friends which donn't bother me. Apart from his ex. She tried very hard to break us up the fir...

A.   2 January 2008: i am in a very similar situation to you. my boyfriends ex was his first proper girlfriend, first love and first sexual partner and I have a hard time not feeling that I must be being compared to her. The things I've thought of to help deal wit... (read in full...)

How can we tell if my gf is starting to orgasm??

Q.   Me and my girl had 1st time sex about 2 months ago[we're both 19]. Since then we've been having regular intercourse. Just recently ,during sex,my girl has started to "call out" and grasp the bedding. She says it's pleasure and just has to let go b...

A.   2 January 2008: Girls can have orgasms at any age from the beginning of puberty. It sounds like she's at least close to orgasms but i think she'd know if she had one. It feels like a massive release of warmth through your body and girls often tremble or shake ... (read in full...)

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