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*onty39
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for 7years. We had our ups and downs. She's kept a secret from me for 7years and finally wants to come clean 1st strike. She drilled me hard about sites like myspace and etc. I stopped using them. Come to find out she has a facebook page after all the drilling...on me. She didn't tell me about it untill recently. No problem.. She always stress to me how she only except adds from people she know and how she would never talk to someone she didn't know. Well as pity as it sounds I created a fake page and profile. She accepted and responded and I asked her have you accepted or talked to people you don't know, adamently she says no never. I confronted her and she is trying to say she thought it was someone she knew. trying to convince me I made up someone similar to someone she knows B.S, after she constantly lied to me until I told her you accepted and responded to me. How can I trust someone who keeps important secrets for our whole entire relationship. Then drills me about things and turn around and do them then constantly lie?
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reader, lovely37  +, writes (5 May 2010):
ive kinda been through the same aswell with my partner hes chatted ive chatted its been tit for tat i think its ok as long as none of you has ever cheated with other people its fine thts going to far my parter says its over between us now but hes still living with me and sleeping my bed weird or what im confsed
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reader, Sakuchanz +, writes (5 May 2010):
She seems shady and if she's lied to you about something like this, then what else has she lied to you about? 7 years is quite a long time with someone, but what exactly is a relationship without trust?
If she can't tell you important secrets like this, then you're better of without her
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 May 2010):
 It's been said here often that people who are guilty of a transgression often accuse their partner of the very thing they do themselves. She knows what happens on facebook because she's done it herself.
I don't know how you can trust her, especially if you gave it up for her sake, and she goes and does the very thing she 'drilled' you about.
I wouldn't be too happy about it either. What has she done to try to win your trust back? Has she given up facebook too?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 May 2010):
I think this woman is very controlling and manipulative. Your experiment proved that. I don't think you can trust her, and I think you need to sit down and really look at this relationship. Seems to me like you can do better.
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