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How can I stop myself from obsessing over the girl who almost ruined our relationship??

Q.   Hi, I'm a female and I need serious help about this guy... We dated for nearly 2 years when everything went bad. Another girl interfered, they dated for a month or so, then broke up because he wanted to be with me. Yet, we still had problems bec...

A.   24 December 2008: Hi there, Mate, 16 is the worst age, everything seems to be more confusing, I mean I remember my 16 and that age range was a complete mess. My advice mate? Simply stop taking to this gal, stop messaging her and if you can stop looking at her bett... (read in full...)

Why cant she get pregnant?

Q.   My girlfriend and i are trying to have a kid. We have had sex so many times so why wont she get pregnant?...

A.   2 June 2008: Hi, Why do you want to have a kid at 12!!!! That´s my first question. If you believe in god, thank him that your girl is not pregnant. Do you know what implies? You are not even legally able to work! Not even to buy a beer. I am not sure what´s ... (read in full...)

Girls only see me as a friend...

Q.   How odd is it to almost be 23 years old and still not had any real relationships? I am a 23 year old male and relatively good looking, or so I am told by some female friends. The problem is I just don't know how to move from the friendship stage...

A.   2 June 2008: Hello, Nice to meet you. I can resume your problem with the word “attitude”, I am not a native English speaker, but from the best of my knowledge the word “attitude” denotes negativity, something bad. Well sir I can tell you is not, I am half Ital... (read in full...)

Should I got out with this player?

Q.   There's this lad that i work with. He flirts with me all the time but i get the feeling he is a 'player' and that the other lads are messing about with me. He previsiouly asked me out a few times but i have declined but recently i've been liking him ...

A.   1 June 2008: Hello, Well all depends, if you are thinking you might change this “player”, no way, it will never happen. If you want to hang out with him, knowing beforehand is one night stand, that´s ok, sometimes you do not want something serious, just mee... (read in full...)

I feel dumb even asking this, but was it an orgasm?

Q.   I just turned 18, and I've never had an orgasm. I've tried masturbation and that certainly feels good...but so far no orgasm. Recently, however, I was masturbating with some pretty hot images in my head, and I felt the urge to masturbate faster, and ...

A.   19 May 2008: Hello, It looks like you had one, well they call it “le petite mort” the little dead, since you are exhausted and still after you had one, pretty much looks like you reached that state. Cheers, ... (read in full...)

That disappointed look on her beautiful face when she is not satisfied in bed... discourages me even more!? Help!

Q.   i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, and i plan to marry her soon. everything seems to be going well except for one thing. our sex life. we are both 17 and have been tring everything to make sex work but something always goes ...

A.   19 May 2008: Hello, First of all nice to meet you, I am concerned maybe your problem per se is not physical, maybe you 2 are always in hurry, afraid that someone will knock the door, that does not help at all. If that is not the case, you need to work much more... (read in full...)

Career advice needed

Q.   hello,friends. i need help about my career,i m from india now i m 23 years old qualificaton 8th class only, beuse of my family problems, i cant able to stady , now i m faceing lot's of problem in life , i m trying for job but i didnt get and la...

A.   27 January 2008: Hi there, Well, how about call centers? I mean from the best of my knowledge India is full of call centers, I don´t think they will ask for much, with a reasonable level of english you will be ok. So give it a try, if one interview does not work... (read in full...)

I am becoming interested in him as he is nice and respectful, but is he too old for me?

Q.   Hello, I'm 15 years old, and a 19 years old guy likes me. He's really nice and respectful. I'm becoming interested in him, But I'm thinking it's not right of me. Is this guy too old? [Added] Hello, I've posted a question here recently, But another ...

A.   6 January 2008: Hello, Well actually I don´t believe he is too old, I mean from 15 to 19 there is not much gap, if you were falling in love with a guy like me 27..that´s a different story, but 19 is no too old, when you mean respectful you mean he does not pay ... (read in full...)

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