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How can I retrain myself not to think of him so much? 2000 miles away and he broke up with me due to the distance.

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Question - (11 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *lackHeart24 writes:

Dear Cupid,

Now this is a situation I'm completely new in.

During the summer last year I started going on a website and I met this guy and we hit it off and became friends.

As the months went by we learned more about each other we began talking on the phone,facebook,skype and we started dating which was fine for awhile until the main problem kicked in, we live 2,000 miles apart.

We dated for 2 months until he couldn't deal with the distance anymore and ended the relationship.

He's sweet,funny,crazy but in a good way and always kept me smiling and laughing. He made me feel special, beautiful he made me feel like no other woman mattered but me and that's something no man has ever done or made me feel before.

Everytime we talked on skype I would smile get these butterflies in my stomach, I would find myself thinking about him everyday for no reason, now that were not together its gotten worse

I don't know what's going on please help

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A female reader, Read-the-signs United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2013):

I absolutely know what it is like to have obsessive type thoughts about someone, especially someone you cannot have. You just miss those feelings it gave you, which is totally understandable. It has left a huge hole in your life. But you must believe me that time will improve things, and that eventually your distress will fade as you move through life and meet different people and someone else who makes you feel great. Be patient, you are human and genuine and you will find happiness again.

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2013):

R1 agony auntThe man has a point, 2000 miles is too far to start a serious relationship. It would be hard and you would miss out on so much not being together physically. It's hard when you meet someone you really like, but he won't be the only one for you, there will be many more, you just haven't met them yet.

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