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36-40,
*lovelyx
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and have a lovely 3 year old son, see my problem is for the past week my boyfriend has been going out all day and not even tried once to spend time with me, we had this really silly but big arugement and it ended up he stopped at our friend's house Kerry for 2 nights. He came back to me one night, said sorry and we had a drink but then in the morning he went back to Kerry's which at this time me and Kerry weren't talking. I don't know why it is her? I finished with him and my son wanted to stay with him but my boyfriend didn't want him said he hated him so I packed a bag for me and my son and went to stay at me mam's but when I got there my mam said she had been in hospital and texted Kerry to let me know but to my shock and yours Kerry never told me! I love my boyfriend to bits and don't want to lose him! I don't know what to do! please help!
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Your boyfriend told you that he hated your son?! His son!!!! Sorry but that is harsh. No matter what problems you and him are having it shouldn't affect the feelings either of you have for your son!
Try talking to him and getting to the bottom of what the issue is. All couples argue. Me and my guy can fall out over anything especially if one of us have had a bad day or something. We argue about anything but we normally find that there is one under lying problem.
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reader, sunrise +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Hi, You need to talk to him and find out what it is he wants, and if anything is going on with kerry.
I obviously know nothing about any of you or the kind of relationship you've had over the last 5 years, but it seems that he wants out but in a way trying to keep his options open with you.
Your son must take priority right now, if he really hates him do you honestly want him to be a part of your lives.
Try leaving him alone, no contact at all and see what happens. It will give you time to think about what you want for yourself and your son, and it will give him time to think about the way he is treating you and what he wants. Let him make contact but then meet on your terms, dont act needy.
If on the other hand he doesn't contact you try to move on and make a happy life for yourself and your son. There is life after love! good luck x
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reader, bovvalicious +, writes (5 July 2007):
 have you tried talking to him? and if you dont mind me askin what was this arguement about? normally if you just sit down and talk about things then everything will work out, try not to get to annoyed that your boyfriend doesnt like your son he is proberley doing it our of spite because of the arguement. just try talking to him and things might work out
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