I want to write a love poem. How do I go about it?
Q. OK this may seem a bit stupid but I don't have a clue where to start because I'm not very good at English. I want to write a love poem for someone who I love but they don't know yet. So where do I start? How to I write it? Thanks...
A. 5 July 2008: First make a list of all the things you love about that person. Then just write a sentence or a paragraph of how that person makes you feel. Then go find a love poems web site and check out some of them to see how you might like to write yours out, ... (read in full...)
How can one use somebody for sex and NOT feel guilty??
Q. How do guys (or girls) who use someone for sex, sleep at night? I mean honestly I just dont understand how they can use someone for sex and not feel guilty at all. What makes them think its OK to use someone like that? What goes on in there mind? ...
A. 2 May 2008: I agree Tilly, there are different types of people. There are the young and stupid, and there are the older wiser ones who still act that way. No, I see nothing wrong if someone just wants casual sex. But why do they have to pretend to like you to ... (read in full...)
I fancy my best friend but I only want him as a friend?
Q. Well, Quite A Long Story, But Here Goes. Basically, I Think I Fancie My Best Friend [Who Is A Boy.] I Don't Know Where These Feelings Have Come From, He's In My Tutor Group At School, So I See Him Every Day. Plus He Is In A Play That I'm In To...
A. 14 April 2008: Dont feel bad for liking somebody. I think its really cool of you to not act on it because your friend is with him. But, if he was single then you should ask him out. Why not if he doesnt have a girlfriend? You never know, he may like you too. What ... (read in full...)
I love her but feel that it might be hard to trust her again.
Q. Hey guys, Ive been goin out with my g/f for 1 year 1 month now, apart from in december when we had a break, which on the whole was successful. I knew she fancied another guy in this time and had "pecked" him. I found out recently that they had se...
A. 4 April 2008: Damn, the exact same thing happened to me at the exact same time. You are not going to trust her for a while. I am slowly getting back to trusting mine, but it's gonna be a while. I don't know, I just wanted to relate. You are like ten years younger ... (read in full...)
I think I depend on my boyfriend too much!! How do I stop being so clingy?
Q. I'm really down. I feel like I depend on my boyfriend too much. I really love him and he's so important to me. But I hate that I think so much about him and that I rely on him so much. To the point that when he gets mad at me, I get really, really ...
A. 4 April 2008: I am going through the exact same thing with my girl in reverse. I care and depend on her way more I think than she does me. And my brain just cant rap around the idea that she keeps a life seperate from me. I meen, I always want to see her and talk ... (read in full...)
My nan and his pop are first cousins! Would this affect any future children we may have?
Q. Please help. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and have just found out that my nan and his pop are 1st cousins. we are devestated and wondering what problems there will be if we decide to stay together and have children??? ...
A. 2 April 2008: There may only be a problem if you are BLOOD related. I think you guys are ok generation wise. Really, that kind of thing happens alot more than you think. I say just keep that info under your hat and move on with your relationship.... (read in full...)
How much porn is too much?
Q. Hi. I am 37 with two kids. My husband and I have know each other for 16 years and married for 8 years. Recently I've discovered he watches pornography every day via a free internet video. I wouldn't care if our sex life even existed but it ...
A. 2 April 2008: You pretty much answered your question, kind of. He watches alot of porn because you guys dont have sex. And add a stress filled job on top and little time and you have a man that needs that release alot just to relax and feel good for a minute. ... (read in full...)
Please read my beautiful fairytale like short story, and please help me if you can
Q. i am a 25 year old single, never been married before man. i am currently involved in a social/physical realtionship with a 38 year old married woman with 2 kids ( 8 and 15 ). we will have been together for nearly 3 years at the end of this year. ...
A. 2 April 2008: The one thing I agree with the most that Oldersister said, is that you are in wayyyyyyy over your head. The responsibility you say you want to take on is enormous. But if you must go forward I say the first thing you should do is get a much better ... (read in full...)
Now, I think I want my ex back!
Q. I am pretty sure that I will be leaving my live-in. We have been together off and on for five years. Me bending over backwards, finally giving in. We have never done 'couple activities', besides going out to eat 7 times in those years. Ho...
A. 2 April 2008: Wow. It sounds like you didnt listen to your heart and waited too long. Remember the reasons you are apart and then remember the good stuff. If the the good stuff outways the other then deffinitely try. Just remember that those things you didnt like ... (read in full...)
Please help me sort my boyfriend out!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for almost three years. He is sweet and good hearted and I love being around him. However, in the beginning I was able to overlook problems that are now a huge concern for me. First, my boyfriend is ve...
A. 2 April 2008: It's actually typical. Most people overlook things for a while thinking they will change or get better. You are at the good stage now. I say that because now is when you decide if you truly love him enough to look past his problems and even take ... (read in full...)
Crush on a teacher gone way too far!
Q. I hope someone can get their head round this because I cant! So i've known this guy for years, he's 23 years older than me, he was my teacher years ago, we had a business together and we've spent so much time chatting over the years - He was m...
A. 2 April 2008: I have to be honest, I have never understood attractions between people of such a great age difference. And unfortunately they usually don't pan out. Believe it or not, age is NOT just a number. It makes a difference and not just in an intellectual ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...
Q. Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...
A. 11 February 2008: Seriously, i'm not sure I believe this anymore. I think this is an adult pulling our legs to see how far he/she gets with it. Sorry, it's just too much right out the movies too believe anymore. I can't imagine anyone being this stupid now a days. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell who's my baby's father?
Q. I had sex in May, and again on June 7 and I am pregnant and due to have the baby on February 25, I am trying to figure out who the father would be?...
A. 8 February 2008: I would say it's the May guy if the Feb. date is accurate. But the only sure way is a blood test. I know you don't want people thinking bad things of you, but I think you are gonna have to come clean on this because this is too important.... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 8 February 2008: You know, my gf flirts online alot. I didnt like it at first but then after a while I realized that it is just a fun outlet for her. Ultimately she wouldn't do anything. I still dont like it and she has gotten away from it. Guys are a little ... (read in full...)
Are my two best friends lesbian/bisexual?
Q. Okay, i apologize that this may be kinda long. Okay, so i have two best friends, lets call them...Paige and Mary (:/). My friend paige has a boyfriend which shes had for 3 or 4 monthes and is very "touchy" with. i dont think shes THAT into h...
A. 8 February 2008: Look, no matter how curious you are or what your motives are, if you press the issue it just makes you look like you're just being nosy. The point is you are not supposed to know untill they tell you. If they ever do. If you here other people ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...
Q. Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...
A. 8 February 2008: He is being flirtatious with you, but you just cant go that way right now. The trouble both of you could be in is so great. you gotta wait til you're 18. Besides, its innocent flirting right now so just leave it at that. When he comes up to you and ... (read in full...)
How to make my face look a bit older?
Q. i am about 5'3 and my body has altegether almost finnished devolping (i have a period) but i still have a baby face !!! it looks silly when will my adult face come all my freinds have theres i feel like the odd one out the bunch. can anyone give me ...
A. 5 February 2008: trust me. when you get older and you still have a baby face youre gonna love it. dont worry about looking older just have a good time being young for now. ... (read in full...)
Are we inhibiting ourselves from "getting over it"
Q. so my exboyfriend and i still have feelings for eachother. we broke up cuz of distance n the fact that our lives might be moving in different directions n shit. but so when we travel n visit eachother (its been about 6 months) we still have a really ...
A. 5 February 2008: So why be broke up? If you both really like each other and really like the time together then just have a long distance thing. People do it all the time, I do. If you both still want to see each other but cant be faithful to each other then have ... (read in full...)
Are my two best friends lesbian/bisexual?
Q. Okay, i apologize that this may be kinda long. Okay, so i have two best friends, lets call them...Paige and Mary (:/). My friend paige has a boyfriend which shes had for 3 or 4 monthes and is very "touchy" with. i dont think shes THAT into h...
A. 5 February 2008: Yea, it seems like you are trying to out them if it is true and thats not cool. I dont know your reason for wanting to know, but basically if one or both is your friend then just leave them be. If they want to tell you they will. There may not be ... (read in full...)
Is the feeling mutual?
Q. Me and this guy text each other a lot, like all day every day, and we have been physical once. We have very sexual conversation all the time. He's very shy and he doesn't make the first move ever, on anyone. I've known him for a few years, and ...
A. 5 February 2008: The only thing you can do is tell him. He is the only one that has your answer. After that, if you both know you like each other, then you have to figure out what it is. Is it just a sexual thing or do both of you want to try something more serious ... (read in full...)
The spark is gone. What do I do?
Q. My Boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and have been living together for 4 years! I went to go and stay with him while i was still im matric! For a few weeks now I have been Having doubts about our relationship, I'm only 20 and he ...
A. 5 February 2008: You know what, for about the next 4 to 7 years you are gonna be thinking like this. You are right, you are probably too young to be tied down at this point. And He is just at a way different point in his life then you are and frankly he should have ... (read in full...)
Can I trust my boyfriend, or are my parents right about him?
Q. Hi My bf and i have been through alot of trouble to be together and my parents are the ones giving us the trouble. I love him with all of my heart and would never cheat on him or do anything that would jeopardise our relationship. His birthday was ...
A. 4 February 2008: Sounds like he is not ready for an open honest relationship. He may not be doing anything bad, but the point is he is being to secretive about it. You need to talk with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him all you want is to be the person he ... (read in full...)
Seven weeks pregnant-should I get an abortion?
Q. hi, i am really looking for some advice. I am 21 years old a single parent of 1 little girl aged 21 months, I have recently found out that i am 7 weeks pregnant i have only been with my partner for 3 months and i dont think the relationship is going ...
A. 4 February 2008: yea, this is tuff. Me and my ex got pregnant too soon in our relationship and we were a little young and in no position to care for a child. So after alot of talking and soul searching we decided to abort. It's been 10 years since and we are not ... (read in full...)
Am I too tight for sex??
Q. Hi Agony Aunts, I'm 16, female, and have been dating a guy who I really care about for 2 years. The problem I have has nothing to do with him, it's with me. He really wants to have sex, and I know I'm ready too, but I just can't make myself do i...
A. 4 February 2008: Ok, well sometimes a girls body is not physically ready for sex yet even as old as 18 or so. Everyone matures differently. But I also have heard that you should try with your own finger when you are alone to loosten up yourself. But, if it is too ... (read in full...)
How far is to far? and what do I get him?
Q. How far is too far in a relationship, if your in highschool? And What Do I Get him For Valentines day?...
A. 4 February 2008: That depends on what your talking about. Just don't do anything that you are not 100 percent sure about. Also if it's something that would make your parents cry then dont do that either. Also, get him a card and a teddy bear. Honestly he probably ... (read in full...)
My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 4 February 2008: Wow, is he really small? I mean you should have felt something. Have you tried doing things to yourself to make sure you are ok down there? It may have been numb maybe but I haven't heard such a thing. I am not a woman so i'm just guessing at some ... (read in full...)
How Can I kick the strip club habit?
Q. I am trying to kick going to the strip club and be with my wife instead all of the time. I am hung up on sex all the time. I don't know what to do. The girl I was emailing has stopped now that she knows I was looking for a relationship. She just ...
A. 4 February 2008: With those kind of thoughts it sounds like you may need some professional help. Nothing serious but just a person to help you get your mind straight. But, at one point you were attracted to your wife that way. Try to get that feeling back between ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him we can make this work long distance??
Q. My boyfriend just informed yesterday that he was supposed to be moving to New Brunswick today, and I live in Toronto. He told me that he's moving to New Brunswick and that he's ending what we have because he believes it's not easy to keep a long d...
A. 24 January 2008: You both are right. It is very hard even for us older folks to have a long distance one. And youre right, if you guys really want to try you could have a chance. But, as hard as it might be, I would say just letting each other go for now might be ... (read in full...)
I had to let him walk away...but I love him so much and want him back.Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for a year and just split up recently. I am in my late twenties; ten years younger than him. In the beginning, he pursued me strongly. I wanted to start slow. When we were together, we were great and got along ...
A. 23 January 2008: You know it's strange. I am in the same boat more or less. She split with me after a year and of course I want her back. But telling her that would not help it would only make things worse. So, I kept in touch but not much. In fact if you can help ... (read in full...)
I can only orgasm on top of him but lately he 's been losing his erection!
Q. I have been married since Sept. 07 and I am 7 months pregant. The only way that I can have an orgasm is if I am on top. We used to mostly have sex that way, he seemed to like it a lot too. But the last few months, when I try getting on top, his ...
A. 23 January 2008: There is something psychological going on here, with the both of you. There are a lot of things you can do though. I know you've said you can't orgasm in other ways, or positions. But there are sex help guides out there that can help, if anything, ... (read in full...)
I want to be friends! He wants to be action man.
Q. ok, is it just me or can me and women not be friends unless the have some sexual intercourse? i have this guy whom i attended college with and he is an awesome person, but everytime we hang out its like all he is worried about is getting a little ...
A. 18 January 2008: For some reason women think they can meet random guys and just be friends and nothing else ever from day one. The problem is, is if a guy takes time to talk to you in the first place that meens he has in some way found you attractive and is ... (read in full...)
I've no wish to scare him off - do I tell him how I feel?
Q. hi, i have come in contact with this great guy ( i think ) smart, handsome, funny and above a nice person.so far so good.the attraction from my side is there but im not sure how he feels. should i ask him/tell him how i feel? i dont want to scare ...
A. 18 January 2008: Yea, you just want to know for sure if this is that friend path or is it the more than friends path you guys are taking because of the distance. I think most guys are like me and like things pretty straight forward. Just ask him one day. "Do you ... (read in full...)
Am I being foolish thinking that he's stringing me along?
Q. I was engaged and almost married to a guy. He and i called it off a month before the wedding. 2 months later we got back together. 4 months later, my friend suspected that he was cheating and would not tell me why. I broke it off and a week later he ...
A. 18 January 2008: Laura is right. You do need to have a serious talk about future expectations from both of you. Your instincts are probably a little acurate too. Guys don't like to talk about there feelings much you know that. But he's gotto be honest with you and ... (read in full...)
What do you do when your life is going all wrong but you cover it up and act like everything is okay?
Q. what do you do when your life is going all wrong but to cover it up you fake a smile and act like its all, all right? see i have this boyfriend named Dylan hes suppost to be my love and everything but hes always agreeing with Joe. see Joe always ...
A. 18 January 2008: Sounds like Joe is just one of those type of friends who doesnt like it if his buddy (Dylan) is having fun with anyone but him. I don't really think you have much to worry about. But I do think that maybe you should try not to be around Dylan when ... (read in full...)
Slept with him but he doesn't want a serious relationship..
Q. I slept with this guy i have know for years. Everything was going great but i didnt know where i stood with him. I asked and he sed he didnt want a serious relationship at the moment, but when i asked him that if things were different, would they be ...
A. 18 January 2008: prying or pressing the issue I think would only make things worse. It sounds like you have already decided you want more than just a casual relationship from him. If you do then the best thing is to make that clear to him and tell him youre not ... (read in full...)
I told him I slept with a guy while we were on a break and he flipped! He doesn't want me now! Advice?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs on and off. I love him with all my heart and he means alot to me. The longest we've ever been apart has been one month, within that month I was dating another guy. The reason for our b...
A. 16 January 2008: I think your relationship with him has run it's course. By what you said it probably should have ended a while back. Not saying that you two wont ever get together again, but truth is truth. You are young and it's ok to move on. Keep in touch with ... (read in full...)
Are there any creams or remedies that dimiss the hurt during the "first night"?
Q. I am 22 and I am a virgin. More so, I am a virgin who just got engaged. I really want to have sex and so does my man - not that hes pressuring me at all. The problem is every time I try it hurts too much... i've used copious amounts of lube ...
A. 16 January 2008: First of all I commend you on waiting for sex with the one you love. I suggest using your finger to masterbate for a few days. After that, find something a little bigger to do it with each time for a few days until you either bust the hymen(thats a ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...
Q. Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...
A. 16 January 2008: This happens all the time. The best thing to do is leave it alone. People get in alot of trouble over stuff like this. Girls mature faster than guys, so it's natural for you to find older men attractive. But, you just cant do anything like that. If ... (read in full...)
I slept with my mate while drunken, now she won't even speak to me! Ideas to solve this?
Q. hi i got drunk at a party once and slept with my mate and she now wont even talk to me i dont love her but i want to talk it over with her how do i get her to just listen for like 5 mins?...
A. 15 January 2008: That depends. Does she think you took advantage of her or does she believe it was just two drunk people who did something stupid and now she cant face you? If she thinks you took advantage, then I don't know what you can do. Probably nothing right ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my boyfriend planned for us to reenact porn scenes...
Q. Hi I'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to see me squirt I need help my boyfriend is 18 and likes us to watch porn together then reenact it he got his best mate to join so we could reenact this scene with two boys one girl help please ...
A. 15 January 2008: Don't do it. It's a relationship killer no matter how much you both might want to do it. If you guys have one of those relationships where you both know it's just for fun and if it ended it wouldnt be that bad, then maybe. Of course I would like to ... (read in full...)
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