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writes:i feel my bf is depressed but wont talk about it he is stress from money and family. he has huge bills to pay thanks to his mum stealing his credit card. i try and talk to him about his problems but his family turns him against me so he wont speak to me. he threatened to leave me recently but a few months ago he proposed.he has decided not to go on holiday with me 5 days before we meant to go. he not eating much and when he does it just toast as he cant afford much more. he is also very ill but still going to work making his illness worst ive asked him to come see me for a few days and ill pay for his train fare he said he will see which is his way of saying no. i offered to come to his but his family banned me from going to there house and there is no hotels near by to stay in how can i get him out of this depression when he wont speak to me or see me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I realize it must be very difficult for you, you probably feel frustrated, as you have offered help and want to help but he is not accepting it. I suggest you give this guy time to sort out his life, his family, his health, his finances. More then what you have done and offered you cannot really do, other then give him time, let him know that you love him and that you understand he needs to resolve the problems. Hopefully he will find solutions and then he will feel less depressed. Be there for him as moral support, encourage him and let him know how proud you are of him for wanting ro resolve these problems.
Good luck and lots of patience!
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reader, atarisrocks +, writes (7 June 2008):
atarisrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the question i forgot to meantion we been together around 1 1/2 years we had plans to move in together and we both 19. also im his first every thing
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