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writes:well i had sex with my girl but at her that was first time...but she didnt bleed!!i know that hymen can be broken by sporting....etc but how can i find out that i was the first man that i had sex with her?!!! please help!
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reader, Shaniya  +, writes (15 November 2007):
if she said she was a virgin then she was a virgin, when you have sex for the first time it doesn't have to hurt and she doesn't have to bleed and I agree with the other people if she wasn't a virgin so what, you weren't a virgin when you had sex with her, she's not your FIRST either
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Why is it such an issue. Just relax and enjoy what you both have. If she has said you are the first then accept it, if not then either put up or get out of the relationship, but dont make her feel like a criminal if you arent the first, accept it. Some people bleed the first time, others dont, i didnt, so what?
take care
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reader, sexi  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Hi
I dont think there is any way you can figure that out besides trusting and believing in her. If she didnt bleed that doesnt mean that she was not a virgin. Juts believe what she says to you and trust her.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, Mistify +, writes (15 November 2007):
 When i lost my virginity, it wasn't painful, and neither did i bleed.
You should trust her when she says that you are her first. Has she given you any other reason to doubt her.
Was she YOUR first?
Either way, it doesn't really matter if you were her first, but rather that you are together NOW. The past doesn't matter in any way. Live in the present, and love each other regardless.
Good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 My girlfriend had 4 children before I met her . . . so I know I'm not the first. LOL. Get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Why do you need to know? What difference does it make?
If your partner tells you that you are her first, then you should take her word for it, not try and prove she is a liar. She obviously cares for you to let you take her virginity.... so you repay her with doubts?
There is no way you can prove it, not everyone bleeds or show any signs of it being their first time. Some people are really loose their first time, some people bleed, some people are tight, some always stay tight.
Being someones first is not the be all and end all anyway.
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