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writes:I'm married four years before my wedding i love sex but since i've been married i hatd it. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Do you have any more info? Do you now have kids around? They can make life very stressy at times and we know what stress can be like on the sex drive. Give a bit more info please, or get in touch with me.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 I do believe that most of the problem when someone is not interested in sex is attitude. Before you get too hard on yourself though, twice a week is about normal. Although it could be a medical reason, many of us just get lazy once the thrill of capturing a mate is accomplished.
Do not become one of those people. If the sex you have feels good and you enjoy it, have more. Make time for it and try to look forward to it. Spend a little time planning for it and perhaps you'll have more interest.
By the way, what would you consider to be a normal amount of sex?
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reader, Mistify +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Was there a transition?
Did you start having less and less sex up to the current point where you hate it?
Well, if that is the case, then you have my deepest sympathy.
I'm going through the same thing.
I don't know why this has happened, but i know that the problem is with me, and not with my partner.
We had a very healthy sex life before moving in together, and now it is down to MAYBE twice a week.
I went to the doctor about this, and he said that for 90% of women, it is all in the head.
Maybe your husband is not treating you right? Maybe you are stressed because of work, and just the slightest advance from His side, makes you want to run away.
Well - i can tell you what i did?
Thing is, i don't Hate sex, i just don't want to have it!!!
I mis having an active sex life, and just wish i could be MORE in the mood.
So - after getting no joy from the doctor, i went to the pharmacy, and bought a product called Libido for her.
It is a herbal tablet, but it has worked. It especially works if you take it religiously everyday.
Don't exclude the possibility that you might have some hormonal, or physical problems, in which case you will need to go to the doctor.
Good luck..
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