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writes:Hey guys, any help would be much appreciated. My boyfriend and I have been going out 2 years. Were currently in a long distance relationship. I logged into his skype account to send a text as I had no credit on mine and he had messages from 2 girls who I've never heard of saying, 'do you still wanna cam? I'm really looking forward to it'. I was livid and confronted him. He swore that he had never live webcam porn with anyone and that he doesn't know how he got these messages. He said everyone must get them as spam. I've had skype for years and have never had any strange messages. Should I believe him? Please help! I can't stop thinking about it. Thanks in advance.
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reader, Tisha-1  + ♥, writes (19 September 2009):
 I get those too! Soooo annoying. I finally went "invisible" on Skype.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009):
Just because a few people received non-elicited messages does not mean your boyfriend is also included.
You said it yourself, you've never received such messages.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help guys. It's good to hear that everyone gets those messages. I was silly to overreact. I did believe him but I guess some paranoia inside made me worried. Thanks :)
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (17 September 2009):
Hi wanna cam?
There, now you are as guilty as him.
I get those messages.
They aren't even from real girls, it's all done by one guy in Nigeria who uses a programme to set up loads of accounts to send out spam.
Calm down and don't be so quick to jump to the wrong conclusion.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, icelordess + ♥, writes (17 September 2009):
 Believe him until proven otherwise. I get these messages all the time on skype. They are VERY annoying. Don't assume he's cheating on you. He probably really doesn't have any idea who these people are. I know I don't!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): You could give him the benefit of the doubt and believe him.You could also periodically log in and see for yourself. You could even message them back to see if it truly is spam.Do whatever you would like. Often times, we lie in order to not hurt our partners.
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reader, busy04 +, writes (17 September 2009):
 There are a lot of spam things that happen on Skype, regardless of how long or short you've been using it. Instead of first accusing him, just talk to him and try listening before you respond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): I just set up skype so I can talk to my sister who moved to a different state. I have even been getting those messages. It is spam. You should hear him out!
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