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His skype had strange messages from girls wanting to webcam!

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Question - (16 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, any help would be much appreciated. My boyfriend and I have been going out 2 years. Were currently in a long distance relationship. I logged into his skype account to send a text as I had no credit on mine and he had messages from 2 girls who I've never heard of saying, 'do you still wanna cam? I'm really looking forward to it'. I was livid and confronted him. He swore that he had never live webcam porn with anyone and that he doesn't know how he got these messages. He said everyone must get them as spam. I've had skype for years and have never had any strange messages. Should I believe him? Please help! I can't stop thinking about it. Thanks in advance.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (19 September 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntI get those too! Soooo annoying. I finally went "invisible" on Skype.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009):

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Thanks for the help guys. It's good to hear that everyone gets those messages. I was silly to overreact. I did believe him but I guess some paranoia inside made me worried. Thanks :)

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2009):

Hi wanna cam?

There, now you are as guilty as him.

I get those messages.

They aren't even from real girls, it's all done by one guy in Nigeria who uses a programme to set up loads of accounts to send out spam.

Calm down and don't be so quick to jump to the wrong conclusion.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (17 September 2009):

busy04 agony auntThere are a lot of spam things that happen on Skype, regardless of how long or short you've been using it. Instead of first accusing him, just talk to him and try listening before you respond.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009):

I just set up skype so I can talk to my sister who moved to a different state. I have even been getting those messages. It is spam. You should hear him out!

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