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anonymous
writes:My guy has dumped me uncountable times even on facebook (blah blah ended their relationship) He flirts with almost every gal, and some of them have a crush on him. He inboxes his ex fuck buddy that his loins burn for her and he misses her, he even asked for sex and has met her behind my back and claims not to have had sex with her. He writes on other gal's wall sweety, pretty, beautiful, and they call him handsome, sweetheart and that they miss him soo. He is also on a rekindle-past-relationships-quest where he asks oldflames for a hook up, coffee date. He writes notes like "gal u beautiful", "ingredients of love" and tags all this girl friends of his. Whenever i ask him he says that was when we broke up and he moved on with his life. But when we make up he keeps on doin that. And he is not sorry for doin that and tells me to live with it. I kno all that coz we exchanged passwords but he changed his after i questioned his activities. He'd even removed me as his friend and blocked me so that i dont see his profile. I know facebook is just a social site but this is mostly his avenue for communication. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): I agree with the other posters, this is not acceptable, dump him! He doesn't care about your feelings as you said he is not sorry, and deleting you from his facebook just shows he WILL if he hasn't yet, continue flirting with these other girls. He's done it before and he'll do it again. He WON'T change. Finish him and let the other girls find out for themselves how much of an A**ehole he is!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Dump him, that's no way to behave when you're going out with someone
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reader, baby_tinney  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 ok I think deep down you know what you got to do.If you cant trust the guy then you dont need to be with him.Trust is #1.Once it is broken it takes a very long time to get back and the way he is going he dont want it back.If you are with him just to have someone so be it but if you are looking for a forever kinda guy you needa move on down the line cuz it isnt him.
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reader, hearthelper  +, writes (13 June 2009):
Block him and never check on his profile unless you want to be heartbroken. You can't change a man or his actions. he's a player who needs to get his ego stroked, and he's immature and definitely not one for commitment.
Anybody who treats you like dirt (sorry, this is what he is doing) doesn't like you or cares about you; he just wants to string you along because he might want to fuck you in the future. He WILL NEVER CHANGE. NEVER. And he's a pig and a selfish, immature jackass. Don't kid yourself about it. I'm not gonna sugarcoat my advice because the same shit has happened to me and broke my heart and destroyed my life. I had to move away and change myself and start being very careful with the guys I date.
Oh and read the same advice i gave "lonely at 21" and "overthinking and obsessed". Theres lots more info there on what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): That is unacceptable behavior. He clearly has no respect for you at ALL and you need to get this player out of your life.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (13 June 2009):
 The next time he changes his Facebook relationship status you change yours too...online and offline! Get a new boyfriend that respects you and won't go behind your back to get with other women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Bin him and block him, lady. I'm a man, and would never behave that way.
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