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His facebook activitie worry, irritate and annoy me!

Q.   My guy has dumped me uncountable times even on facebook (blah blah ended their relationship) He flirts with almost every gal, and some of them have a crush on him. He inboxes his ex fuck buddy that his loins burn for her and he misses her, he even ...

A.   13 June 2009: Block him and never check on his profile unless you want to be heartbroken. You can't change a man or his actions. he's a player who needs to get his ego stroked, and he's immature and definitely not one for commitment. Anybody who treats y... (read in full...)

Overthinking or obsession??

Q.   Thanks for reading because I know this may seem like a typical highschool drama, but I really am worried that my boy paranoia will continue... I always overthink. Not just like, "Oh my god, does he like me?" Overthink but, "Does he hate me, is ...

A.   13 June 2009: What I think will help you is the book 1000 (or 1001) reasons he didn't call you back. and "he's just not that into you."And probably "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"(John Gray). You need to know how a guys mind works, because men and women ... (read in full...)

How do I break the hold he seems to have on me?

Q.   Hi, everyone! I need all of your insights and encouragement to walk away from a bad situation. And I really need to know what this guy wants from me. He's been pursuing me now off and on for over a year, and the dummy that I am keep allowing ...

A.   13 June 2009: ouch, i've been in this situation millions of times with different men, and let me tell you, this toxic relationship is very painful and the hardest to get out off. I've quit 3 or 4 jobs and even moved to another country to get far away from men who ... (read in full...)

Not sure I should commit to any one of these guys

Q.   Hello everyone! I'm caught in an odd situation--I broke up with my best friend/boyfriend a month ago. I loved him so much. Bad breakup. Long story. I was heartbroken (please don't tell me that because I'm 15 it's not love... I've heard it before)....

A.   13 June 2009: um, lucky you. I wish i was in that situation! Guys really have no problem dating many girls at the same time when they're not officially committed to anyone. So you can do the same. At least your open and honest with the men. I say keep be... (read in full...)

I love a woman and a man - help!

Q.   I have been married to two men (one died and one divorce) and have 3 grown children. About 10 years ago I met a woman (confirmed lesbian) and fell in love. We have lived together ever since. However, due to physical circumstances on her part, we ...

A.   13 June 2009: Yes, it's entirely possible to be in love with 2 different people, or more, at the same time. But sorry honey eventually at least one of you will get hurt because of this, and my guess your gf will get hurt the most. You need to figure out what... (read in full...)

If we keep spending time together will it change his mind about a relationship?

Q.   I still like my ex boyfriend, and i know now that he doesnt want to date me. When we talked about it, his exact words were "i dont want any relationships, i just wanna fuck." Do you think if we kept sending time together that he would change his ...

A.   13 June 2009: I can't believe it the exact thing just happened to me two days ago and let me tell you it turned out to be one of the best things that could happen. Heres why: I fell for my guy when I thought he was one of the sweetest, emotionally mature, ... (read in full...)

So lonely my heart hurts.

Q.   I'm a 21 year old female, I have style, class, intelligence and am always warm to others. But I am so alone my heart literally hurts. I moved around allot in my high school years and ended up being home schooled. I have no real friends outside of ...

A.   13 June 2009: I've had this problem my whole life and still go to counselling every week to help get perspective on myself and my terrible dating situations. Honey, I have gone through hell and back dating all sorts of guys who at first seemed great on the ... (read in full...)

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