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female
age
30-35,
*unfuzzled
writes:My boyfriend and I have had a very rocky relationship but i thought it was getting better, 4 months after we started dating he cheated on me... because it was so early in the relationship i forgave him... now... a year and two months later he says the same girl and him are just friends.... heres my bigger problem... we went on a month "break" over the summer... in this time they apparently tried being together but said it just didnt work out... that complicates it more... because now they're still so close. I asked him to stop being so close with her. so he emailed her... in the email he told her "he cant be torn between the two of us anymore and that hes sorry hes been holding on to her for so long giving her false hope, but he believes im the one he needs to pick bla bla bla" now this would be all good and stuff.... but hes been talking about proposing for the last few months... now hes been having, what i hope, is an emotional affair with this girl and talking to me about marriage. im so lost.... help????
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reader, defeated +, writes (6 March 2010):
time to turn ur back hun, there is now such thing a banging someone or have a emotional affair with someone and the only being friends
if this is the shit he is pulling now, it can only be worse later
find someone new, someone with morals
remember do onto others as u would have others do onto u
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (6 March 2010):
 You are his safety net. The marriage would not make the affair go away. Their relationship did not work out because you are still in the picture. Since you are the one always forgiving he would always come back to you. He appreciates you always welcoming him back with open arms, but not really who you are as a person.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 March 2010):
I genuinely think you need to leave this guy now. He cheated and you forgave him, then you took a break and went back to her, and now this. Stop giving him all these chances. He has proved himself unworthy.
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