A
male
age
26-29,
*ansur ahmed
writes:Hi frndzz, i love my cousin a lot. We used to chat to each other at gmail. I have strong feelings for her. I expressed my feelings to her through gmail but she ignored my feelings and replied:'' what the hell are you talking?''. And i have been hurted very much. Pls pls give me advise, what to do? I love her so much that i can't describe...help me as soon as possible..
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reader, Mansur ahmed +, writes (10 May 2013):
Mansur ahmed is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank u my dear advisors... According to ur opinions.. Iam trying to moving on and also forgiving her as soon as possible. I came to know that just it was an attraction not love.. Once again iam thanking to my advisors...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 May 2013):
 OH the TEEN ANGST… of course you can live without her, you are doing it right now. She is your COUSIN. I don’t know about where you are but here, cousins dating is not mainstream acceptable.
My advice… move on, she does NOT feel the way about YOU that you feel about her and NOTHING you can do will change that. Part of maturing, is accepting that you can’t have everything you want.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (9 May 2013):
 You can and will learn with time to move on. For now its in your best interest not to contact her or you would seem desperate.
Let it go. You cannot make someone love u. Open yourself to someone else see other girls, just go out with guys and have fun. It takes time but we get over , no one has ever died from loving someone, just the cowards that do it through suicide.
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reader, Mansur ahmed +, writes (5 May 2013):
Mansur ahmed is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u for giving me advise but I can't live without her...
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (2 May 2013):
Sorry to be blunt because it might be hard to read, but I’m afraid her response makes it pretty clear that she doesn’t feel the same way. Maybe she also isn’t comfortable with the idea of cousins feeling like this for each other.
It was brave and courageous to confess your feelings, many people don’t take the chance and always wonder what might have been. Sadly though, there’s always a risk of rejection and I’m afraid you’ve just been taught that cruel lesson.
Perhaps explain again that you were trying to reveal your feelings for her, but that you understand that she doesn’t feel the same way. That will at least give you some closure in the knowledge you were clear and honest with her, and then you can start the difficult task of moving on.
I wish you all the very best.
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