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female
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anonymous
writes:Hello,Well it was 2 years back when me and my boyfriend met. We were in love. After 3 months he told me he can not be with me coz his dad got to know about us and he can not go against his parents. He asked me to leave him and live without him. I tried to make him understand but he did not change his decision and left me. I was shattered badly coz I loved him truly. Anyways within 4 months I moved on. Within those days he never called me and so didnt I. After 4 months I met a new guy who told me that he loves me and we knew each other for 2 months as friends. we study in the same university. I said Yes to him and started going out with him. Within 20 days my ex got to know that i'm in a relationship with someone so he felt jealous and called me and said he never forgot me. the time he left me he was really helpless but the fact is he loves me. I was totally in a dilemma. I did not have any idea what to do. But it is true that i always loves my ex. I let the new guy enter in my life coz he was perfect and he loves me madly. So I was helpless towards my heart. I could not decide anything. I could never say no to my ex but I could not even say no to the new guy coz i was scared if my ex behaves like before and leave me again ? So I thought I should see my ex for some time what he behaves like. My ex asked me to leave the guy of my life and said he'll never leave me again no matter who says or what happens. But My fault is I kept contact with both. One day very soon I got caught by my ex that I'm in still touch with the new guy. My ex thought I was cheating him. Then Finally I left the new guy and explained everything. My ex became the love of my life again. But he wasnt behaving like normal. he was rude all the time with me and used to talk less and give me less time. Then he decided to leave me again. so we broke up again. Even after break up he called me and said he's missing me physically coz he never had sex with any other girl. I was the one n only. For the sake of getting him back I had sex with him without having no relationship ! I thought if we had sex again he'll feel the love again towards me. But he was the same. After tolerating 3 months, One day being frustrated I decided to leave the country as well as him. When i was about to leave, he burst into tears then i realised he really loves me, he asked not to leave and he'll forget every bad things that happened between us. he apologised for being rude with me and calling me for sex without relationship. All that was revenge he said. But he wants me in his life coz he can not live without me. I agreed to stay. We were in heaven again. we decided our future and dreamt of our life. We both really very very happy. we used to talk and chill all the time. But suddenly before a month he told me he loves me that is sure but he's ashamed of me coz his friends make fun of him coz he took me back in his life and loves me even after i cheated on him. Im good looking girl and guys and girls are jealous of me so people did make misconceptions about me to him. he believe some of them and some not. He decided to leave me again, Coz he can not tolerate all this things. But he stopped him towards going abroad he committed to me that no matter what happens he'll never leave me. But today he does not want to be with me. I tried to make him understand, I talked with him but his decision is the same. I made him recall about why he stopped me, he said he was wring then, he was emotional then. he loves me surely and will always love me but can not live the entire life with me. I want to know what can be in his mind ? Why is he doing all this again and again to me ? what should i do to get him back ? he loves me he says so do i.
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reader, zenie  +, writes (23 June 2011):
May be you'll not like my answer...but I dont think this guy loves you...It will be better you try to forget him..You are not a toy...that whenever he likes he want to get you and when he is over he throws you..You should have your own pride...
I really think he is not good for you.. It will be hard for you to forget him but just be strong and try to forget him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2011): do you really want this guy in your life? your always going to wonder weather he will do it again i understand that to really like this guy but is it worth the pain every time he walks away and leaves you to pick up the pieces
its like as if he wants you when you dont need him or when your planning to get compelety away from him its like if he has you on a rope and lets it lose and then pulls ya back in again i think you would be better to move on and safe yourself alot more hurt
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