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Is an hour for sex too long?

Q.   Sex with my fiance' usually lasts 45 min to an hour. She complains that it takes me too long, but i have "trained myself" to last like this, and now its difficult to have an orgasm in a hurry (less than 15 min). She complains about it, but I though...

A.   25 October 2009: Personally I've never really liked having a quicky. It also takes me a while to orgasm i think is why I don't enjoy quick sex. I would much rather savor the moment for an hour or so lol. I do need a brake every 15-20 min though. Otherwise it does ... (read in full...)

He kisses weird and I don't know how to go about it

Q.   okay well i started dating this guy and its the best thing that ever happened to me. But i have a problem. when we kiss and he goes to make out with me, i can't think straight! and plus he makes out so different than the other guys i have made ...

A.   21 August 2009: When he licks your lips lightly bite his bottom lip. Some guys like it. Then slowly tilt your head and show him how you like to be kissed.... (read in full...)

Why is it ok for guys to pleasure themselves but women are considered dirty?

Q.   I was wondering why it is so publicly excepted for guys to pleasure themselves and nobody will think anything of it except that they're just being a guy, but when a girl does she is considered dirty, or a slut. What is the difference between ...

A.   3 August 2009: Ok at school me and a few of my girl friends were talking to some guys and the subject of masturbation came up and we all said we did it and they all freaked out. They said its only exceptable to masturbate if your a porn star and do it in front of ... (read in full...)

How can I help her to relax?

Q.   ive tried having sex with my girlfriend twice now and it wont go in. she says she is too tense and that she needs to relax more. how can i help her relax more?...

A.   3 August 2009: Give her a good massage, and eat her out(only if she is comfortable with it though, talk to her about doing this before hand though). I have this same problem with my boyfriend, its not easy to over come. When she tenses up rub her clit and tell her ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend tells me I am loose "down there" what am I supposed to do?

Q.   Before my bf i had little sex. When we started to have sex he would always say how it made him feel good that i was so tight it made him happy i didn't sleep around. Now, 2 years later i am not so tight anymore. We have sex quite a bit. He is ...

A.   26 July 2009: There is an exercise you can do to make you tighter. Its called kegal exercises. All you do is tighten and loosen the pc muscles for 3 seconds 10 times like twice a day. You can also find more about it on the web. Ive been told they work really ... (read in full...)

How can I get hard erections back again?

Q.   I am a 16 years old healthy guy, never had any health problems but like 6 months ago i've became sexually active. I had sex with a bigger woman (1 night stand) we were drunk and on the beach.. it was winter so it was cold. When i penetrated here i ...

A.   7 May 2009: ok u masturbate. that's fine but how hard are you doing it? if you do it to hard you could damage things.... (read in full...)

2 questions about sex....

Q.   So i have 2 questions basically and i need some advice... my gf got topless for me couple days ago, but her nipples didn't get hard at all nd i tried everything, kissed the, sucked on them touched them and kissed her body... by the way we didnt...

A.   29 April 2009: If she is a kinky girl try squeezing or pinching them. If she isnt then DO NOT even try this. But you never know most girls look nice and sweet but inside the have extreamly kinky thoughts. Second every girl has pubic hair its normal and if she does... (read in full...)

Help! Is this normal?

Q.   Me and my bf have made love twice. he is totally amazing, but there is one problem. he can never get in more then 5-6 in. even with foreplay it still doesn't go in all the way. when 6in come around it starts to hurt really bad so he has to stop. is ...

A.   29 April 2009: Also i was wondering if there are any positions that might helpe. or if this has happened to you what did you do that helped out.... (read in full...)

I don't feel pleasure during intercourse!

Q.   aaaahhh! i need help! ok so my fiance and i just started having sex i guess 5 months ago. he's the second guy i have had sex with. i get in the mood but everytime i feel him inside but there is NO pleasure! i know he's not too small because th...

A.   29 April 2009: Most women don't get any pleasure from vaginal because most of our pleasure come from the clitoris. 80% of women cant orgasm through vaginal because were not designed to. There MUST be foreplay and clitoral stimulation. And condoms till marriage.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has Erectile Dysfunction.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been sleeping together for about 3 months now and recently we've been having some problems. We've always used condoms and he's never had any trouble getting an erection before. However, last time I stayed at his he lost it ...

A.   29 April 2009: First NEVER have it unprotected unless u want babies. second its probably just stress guys have that problem when there super stressed. Just wait awhile and see if things get better or if your really concerened see a dr.... (read in full...)

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