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writes: Ok i have this guy friend that i have of course fallen for. A few months back like back in novemberi was talking to his bestfriend about how i like his friend. Anyways he asked his friend i guess ifhe liked me or something all that line........and he said that he just wants to be friends. Well iwas cool with it...........So back in december My guy friend and his bestfriend and i went to the movies.I payed for my ticket that nite which was fine with me. Well jits now feb and i went to the movies withmy guy friend last weekend and i went to pull out my debt card and pay for my ticket and by the time mycard was swiped my guy friend looks at me and says what are you doing and i turn to look at him and hehas a 20 in his hand i say im sorry i didnt know you wanted to pay for me so i ended up paying for my ticketSee last time we went to the movies he didnt say nothing at all about paying so how was i to know he wanted tothis time...Well him and i were on the phone the nite after and i was thanking him for taking me to the movies the nite before.Then all of a sudden he brings up saying that he was sorry if he was acting werid and i said i didnt notice and hesaid that he was nervous and i asked him about what and he said that he didnt know why and i asked him if it wasbecuz of me and he said no that he gets that way alot.................Well about 2 nites ago i was talking to his bestfriend about what happend that nite and he said that he has never knownmy guy friend to be nervous expect before a test or something really important. His bestfriend tells me to tell him thati like him and i told him that i cant do that cuz he is a really good friend of mine and that i would be really embrasseif i tell him and he doesnt return the feelings cuz i have a fear of uncomfortableness. I said i would tell him if i couldfind out some more about where my guy friend stands cuz the last time his bestfriend talked to him he said that he justwanted to be friends...............So he goes and talks to my guy friend tofind out more about what he thinks and me. His bestfriend pretends to act like he wants to ask me out to see what my guyfriends reaction would be and he said i dont know shes a really nice girl and then drops the topic and goes on to somethingelse.When i got this info from his bestfriend him and i were thinking that my guy friend didnt want to encourage his bestfriend toask me out cuz he thinks that my guy friend likes me. So last nite i was talking on the phone with my guy friend and i askedhim if his bestfriend said anything to him about me and he said no and i said or cuz i said something to him and i was afraidhe told you and he said what was it and i said i cant tell you and he said you can tell me and i said no............then heasked me what i was doing the following nite and i said i had to work and he said oh and i could tell that he wanted to asksomehting else so i said why you ask he said oh i was just wondering and i said well there had to be a reason and he said ihave secrets to.........and we both laughed.........but it turned out that he wanted to ask me to go to the movies....See this whole thing this really driving me nuts. Like i want to tell him i like him but the saying "i just want to befriends with her" is keeping me from telling him. I know that it was said a few months ago and he could have maybe changedhis mind but i dont know. I mean i think there is signs of him liking me but i dont know. What should i do? I mean i havealready given hints that i have a secret and he probly knows off bat that i like him just becuz how i was refusing to tellhim and that i said i maybe someday tell him. Plus i could tell that he was smiling behind the phone when he kept asking me what my secret was....lolI dont know what to do! Please help!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 The next time he calls you, TELL him you like him. He used to want you to be friends only but it sounds as if he wants to be more than just friends with you now and he's too nervous to ask in case you turn him down. Take the initiative her and tell him you really like him. He'll probably breathe a big sigh of relief. If he asks you out again then say yes, you'd love to and take it from there. The guy seems pretty smitten with you so you have nothing to worry about now.
Go for it, tell him you really like him.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 The beginings of any relationship is kind of unsettling, sounds like you need to relax and go with the flow for awhile. Just be yourself, he sounds like he is very interested. Have fun and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): Let him get to asking you out on his timeline. He likes you already. Don't push it, just enjoy the slow reveal.
You like him so, don't be playing anymore games-have patience.
Best Wishes.
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