A
female
age
51-59,
*ana38
writes:My husband has problems with erectile dysfunction. He is very insecure about the problem and so we rarely engage or try to have sexual intercourse. He rarely performs oral sex on me. I have become sexually frustrated and upset with him. I know that this is not his fault and I don't blame him because he has ED. I am upset because he will not go to the Doctor and try and get help. I have discussed my feelings with him numerous times but it doesn't seem to matter. I am thinking that if this continues I may end up ending the relationship. Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship but it is important. I am at that age where my hormones are going crazy and I want sex all the time. I have to masturbate almost daily. Does anyone have any advice?
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 I understand your problem. Many men would. You have sexual needs and ideally your partner should satisfy them. you should tell him how important it is. I suppose you have. I guess from his point of view (he probably has low hormones as well) he is just not interested and can't imagine how anyone could be. If he won't help you maybe you will have to consider your relationship. Maybe he will be ok with you going elsewhere for satisfaction. good luck.
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