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writes:okay...hello everyone!my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and though things have not been all that normal, we have had very rough patches i have somehow survived till now. i feel he is a little dominating and egotistical. so we are still college students and we have a common friend group. our vacations started and i am leaving home the next afternoon after college ends. he doesn't want to come drop me off, or even meet me.he has plans with his friends but i am not supposed to say anything because he dint make them. he is giving me excuses, like i don't have fuel or money, i don't think you appreciate things so i should not be doing this. he just refuses to do those small things which matter to me. am i reacting too much? is it normal behviour? how do i make him see things. he just doesnt get it. he was not like this earlier...
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 If your boyfriend if refusing to do even the smallest things that matter to you then he does not sound like a nice guy.
Your not over reacting and if i was you explain to him how you are feeling and see if he manages a change of heart... if not leave him because if he does not think your happiness matters then he is not worth being with.
Goodluck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 If you are dating for just a year and things have been rough and abnormal from the beginning why do you stay?
If he is dominating and egotistical this will NOT change. IF he is not giving you what you need he is not a very good boyfriend now is he?
You can’t change him. You can’t love his potential or what you want or need him to be. IF he does not meet your emotional needs you will never feel happy.
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