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writes:My boyfriend and I were having sex when I felt a severe abdominal discomfort and I asked him to stop. After taking a rest for about 5 minutes, he wanted to force himself into me again but my pain was still there so I said I didn't want to do it anymore. I then left the room to take some pills, and when I came back into the room, he was watching porn and masturbating, without even asking how I'm feeling. I curled up in bed while he continued to masturbate in front of the computer.Is it unreasonable of me to feel upset and disrespected by this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): That's so out of order! DITCH THIS IDIOT now now now now now now now now. What an inconsiderate dick head. Eughhhhh.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Not all men are the same . Some have a higher or lower sex drive. I think we should not judge him. If you feel unhappy , you could tell him how you feel about it.
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 I think what he did was awful. You could not carry on with the sex, because you were in pain. To come back and see him relieving himself to porn on the computer is plain insulting. The bit about him forcing you, concerned me. There should NEVER be any forcing at all. Sorry, but he sounds like a selfish pig.
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 What a tool! You are totally justified to feel pissed.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (8 February 2008):
How would you feel if you were dumped half way though your love making? You are so steamed and he simply could not proceed anymore.
Maybe , the next time , he should go to the WC and jacked it off.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 February 2008):
 This is not the way a real man treats his woman, nor himself. Yes, it sounds like disrespect for you in my opinion. I hope you are not living together.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Hi ,
just the tone of your post worries me. He tried to "force himself on you" and didnt care how you were feeling.
Now for us guys it can be very frustrating if sex finishes early, but if a man has any idea how to respect a woman you ask how your lovely girl is doing when she comes out of the bathroom, give her a peck on the cheek, a cuddle and wait patiently for her to go to sleep and then go in the bathroom and relieve yourself.
Your boyfriend sounds like a guy who would never do this, sorry to say but if you havent realised he is a selfish arsehole only interested in pleasing himself, I hope you do soon.
Dump him, you deserve better.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Of course it's not unreasonable. It's clear that he only cared about ejaculating. It didn't even matter if it was through lovemaking with you; he just had to. And that was way more important that anything you were feeling at the moment. You're so right in feeling upset and disrespected.
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