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writes:My partner went to one only ones I been with him for 12 years have 4 daughters and the youngest one is only 3 months old I noticed with our sexual relationship I will have sex with him 3 times a week with my choosing and normally it's all the time.It's coming to the point im asking him for sex and he's too tired.He loves porn where it's affecting us.Not long ago he told me that his back was sore form working and was going to get a massage.I tracked him down by my phone and he went to outside one when he got home he did not say nothing I asked him if he went to a massage parlour what gave you sex his comment was I walked in paid $55 for an hour just had a massage.I said b^^^^^it, You had more than a massage his legs and also his back. I asked him I only thought it was your back was sore, why your legs and also the front of your legs have oil on them.He told me they didn't ask, they just done it.The next day told him my vagina is getting itchy and don't understand why he's told me.He took his underwear off why did he have it off for and still today he tells me nothing happened and I don't no what to think no more
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2017): sounds like you know the answer, something did happen. I'm sorry to say, but now you can get rid of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2017): Sweetheart, don't believe his words.
Keep a careful watch on him from now on.
And yes, find out exactly where he went for the massage. Ask where the massage parlour is located, the phone number and the name of the person who gave the massage. If you can't find out on your own, ASK HIM.
He needs to comply.
If he does not, this is an admission of guilt.
Men who are honest and not cheating will provide you with any information or details your heart desires. Because they will WANT to prove their innocence to you and have NOTHING to hide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2017): Sorry but you need to wake up and smell the coffe . He is visiting prostitutes or in the least , what we call here in Australia , rub and tug massage .
Do you really want to be with a man who thinks so little of women that he is happy to buy their bodies for an hour ? And cheat on the mother of his children . Ask him where he had the massage and tell him you want to book a massage with the exact same massuese he saw. If he refuses you that information and if you can't confirm with that person that is the legitimate therapist he sees rather than some girl with no training then you have your answer
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reader, Nittynora  +, writes (12 January 2017):
 Did he take his underwear off at the massage parlour? If so I do not see the reason for anyone to need to take their underwear off, especially of he is having problems with his back.Do you know which parlour it was? can you find out anything about it. However if you do you cannot PROVE he paid for sexual services, because not all parlours provide this. There are some who do just massage.I think if you had caught something it may have been longer than one day before you vagina got itchy, but if you are not sure get yourself checked.How long has the porn been a problem? has this been a sudden change in behaviour liking porn or has this been recent? Because if it is this new it may co-incide with the interest in the massage parlours.It may be innocent, the thing is you cannot prove THAT incident was sexual, BUT you can be on the look out for future incidents. I often say on here get your detective hat on, lie low and wait for him to slip up. If he is up to no good, you will find out. Watch, listen, and wait you have to have evidence.
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