A
female
age
36-40,
*yperbunny
writes:Dear Agony Aunt,I have been single for a year now. The other day I called my friend to see a phone that she had for sale. She told me that a friend of a freind had the phone, but that he would call me and meet me with the phone. He did call me and we went and met at the bus stop near by. He was gorgeous and i noticed we both blushed.Anyway to cut a long story short I texted him later thanking him for the phone and he later texted me telling me he thought I was 'fit' and that maybe we shld meet up sometime. We continued to talk trhough text and face book and then one evenin we went to watch a film together. I was soo nervouse cos of how much I liked him that I had a few drinks before meeting him. I think I had too much to drink because I dont remeber the film at all! We did kiss but I know must have been murmering cos Iwas drunk. I thought I had totally messed things up between us.He text me that same day and after new years eve and we still chatted, but he never arranged to meet up with me since. Im just really confused.. I thought I messe things up, but then if I had, why was he texting me after, asking how was my new year and talking about the film we watched kisses etc on the text bla bla...etc. Its been two days since Ive heard form him. I do feel a tad upset. He has also got cardigan which I left in his car. urghhh I duno what to do. I shlda have realised I was out of his league, he is ridiculously good looking. Any advice one what I should do and what yout hink of this situation woudl be appreciated.xFrom looking on his facebook he hasnt long split up with his gf because there are still pictures on their of her. I duno what to do now?????
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 Waiting for his call can be an agony . Why not you call him up about your cardigan ? This would give you an excuse to call him. It is quite possible that he is not aware that you left it in his car.
If he is interested in you he will contact you again. If he does not phone you , the ship has changed course.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (9 January 2008):
 you see.. you want him to call/txt/smoke signals or whatever it is you kids do today. you Think you want them to conatct you right away.. but the truth is.. that just scares you off and makes you worried that he could be actually seriously interested in you, when this happens you run a mile and don't reply back. giving the guy mixed signals.
have some patience.
and have some rubbers handy too.
i can't stress the latter enough.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (7 January 2008):
hi hun!
dw when i first went out with my bf i never heard from him. he was too shy to text me he sed later. which now i know is true.
2 days is fine for him not contacing you. maybe you should ask to meet up.
hope this helps
please feel free to mail me if you want to talk about anything else.
lol
ellie
xxx
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