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writes:15 months ago I found the love of my life in a chatroom...or so I thought...He lives 250 miles away...and he came to see me several times... Everything was perfect....sensitive...caring....talked every morning on the phone and every night...Chatted all day at work...But he never asked me to his hometown. Then little things started making me suspicious...He was with me and receieved several text messeges and late night calls....I read one of them and it was from a 2nd cousin married...and they seemed to have some flirting going on....He said it was nothing they were just playing around....Then the next time we were together... same thing all these text messeges. He says from his friends...and makes a huge deal about me not wanting him to have friends...We haven't seen each other in 2 months and I recently lost my Mom and we could be together this weekend and he needs time to clear his head...He says I make everything about me and don't understand him...What should I do????
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reader, kandigirl +, writes (15 September 2007):
kandigirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for taking the time to help ...He called yesterday, but today is the first time in 15 months I haven't talked to him morning and before bed.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 September 2007):
You win by being interesting and loving. If you drink, golf, fish, play tennis, scrabble, darts, judo, pool, or whatever he might like. Do thes things with him so he won't have the time to deal with them. Learn what he likes from a lover and polish your skills until you're the best.
Fix food he likes, help him change te oil in his car, do the little things you know he likes. Always greet him with a smile and a hug. Ask him about his day. Agree with what he says.
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reader, kandigirl +, writes (14 September 2007):
kandigirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow do you win??? will he ever stop and these are just the things i have found out about.
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reader, kandigirl +, writes (14 September 2007):
kandigirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow do you win a man??? Does it always have to be a game....
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 September 2007):
Hey, you're not the only woman in his life. A guy like him has to be won. Get what attention from him you can and if after awhile he doesn't give up his other women you'll have a decision to make.
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