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writes:Here is a revised version of my previous question -http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-over-my-ex-sleeping.htmlwith some background infomation. I was seeing this girl for eleven months and it started off as just sex for us, but then she got attatched. Well after several months I got attatched too but there was a big absence of trust due to how the relationship started. To make a long story short it all came crashing down about ten days ago now she doesn't even speak to me and there isn't a snowballs chance in heck that we will be a couple again. I am now haunted by visions of her having sex with another guy and it's killing me to the point were I can't function properly. I want so advice on how to get past the fear of my ex having sex with other guys. Do you think she hurts too or even thinks about me anymore? HELP!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Do you love her? Because if you do, you should pursue it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Were you two still sleeping together when "it all came crashing down"? Have you talked to any of your friends about this?
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reader, SATC2000 +, writes (14 September 2007):
I think you should have dated her despite how it started. It sounds like you cared about her. Were there other people involved making this more difficult for you? Have you started to date anyone new yet? Good Luck!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 September 2007):
Every guy wonders about who's doing his ex. Once you've moved on you might think of it but you won't care. A new girlfriend is the best way to start moving on. Time also helps.
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