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writes:im confused should I continue trying and keep being spontaneous or should I just move on??I met this guy 6 months ago, he happened to be my valentine because he wanted to hang out then. we've been talking on and off for about 6 months. we've been hanging out, and talking but its not on the daily basis. last time we hung out he claimed we were dating and he claimed that I was the only girl he was talking to. His social media and phone say a different story. long story short it seems to me he talks to me only when I pop into his head. he asked me out a couple of times before and i've canceled because I had other things come up. he claims that I only hang out with him when I have nothing else going on but i'm trying to prove that's not the case.what do I do?? do I continue just texting him when he texts me..because when I text him he only texts me when he wants to. he does own his own business so I try to tell myself its only because he's so busy. but he cant possible be that busy where he forgets to text me but can comment on peoples posts on social media. please help me ! do I just move on, or do I keep talking to him only when he needs me.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (5 July 2014):
He isn't your boyfriend so you shouldn't expect him to be committed to you yet. Since he's saying all these things to you, he is trying to get you to open up. You've already said that you cancel plans with him for other things so this dating game between you two is going to be a slow one. If you are interested in him OR not you should be clear about it right now before more time is wasted by the both of you. Judging someone based on their social media when they aren't committed to you I think is asking for too much.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 July 2014):
 Another "social media SNAFU" When will it all end. People! get off the 'puter and meet face-to face!
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