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writes:Ok guys, this is a strange one really but need sum sort of advice,ive basically i hate 2 say it have got myself a fb, well i said used to have one,The other week once a week i pick him up from his local pub and we have a little chat and stuff, then out of nowwhere he said to me where not doing that sort of stuff anymore ie sex, and that we are freinds, and i could prob get anyguy, Deep down i was kinda i was a bit gutted but thought yeah its his choice so ill go along with it, that same nite he got out the car without giving me a kiss(snog) thats when i new he was being serious as we always have a kiss or sumthing.Anyway last wednesday i picked him up and b4 he left said give me a kiss ( so full on snog) i yet again got confused over this when he said not doing anything again, then last nite when picked him up he was going 2 leave the car then he turned around and said give me a kiss and that was just a kiss on the lips I yet again went away thinking what is he doin, hes playing mind games with me, but i like him as a mate and dont want 2 loose him, as that really yeah it was more to the just mates thing before but now that doesnt happen i like it just like that so my question to all you is... do u all think hes playing with me, and should i say sumthing to him about the kissing before he leaves the car ???
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reader, Roseanne13  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Maybe its all he wants
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reader, AmberNuttall +, writes (22 June 2010):
You need to ask him, confront him. But i really think he likes you more than a FB thats why he stopped it.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Because sometimes, a kiss is just a kiss.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 ANY man saying he's not going to want sex with you is like a fish saying water is not a big deal.
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reader, romany +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Your picking him up from the pub! is he pissed? coz he may not know his head from his arse thru alcohol.I dont think he is playing you, or rather he isn't meaning to play you, I think maybe he wanted to put an end to your fook buddy friendship and just be friends, as he started to feel something more than what is expected from a FB, his words and actions are very confused, which leads me to think that will be how his head is, and so i think you need to clarify them, you need to ask him, say..., one minute your saying friends only, then your going for a snog, then nothing, tell him to make up his mind, and depending on what you hear, and how you feel, you must be the one to make the decisions. If you want him exclusively, tell him, if you dont, tell him. It seems he is the one in the driving seat, you need to get this whole situation onto a more even keel.
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