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writes:I am a 25 year old black girl dating a 50 year old white guy, we've been dating for a year now. He told me that he separated with his wife but my corncern is he only sees me during weekends and he told me that he will make love to me if only I get tested! I agreed and the results are both negative but my problem is he doesn't seem trustworthy to me because he don't want to spend quality time with me, is always business. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Sounds like me you are his mistress. He might not be married but you sure as hell aren't on the short list to be his future wife.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 i cant believe he told you to get tested! i'm sure if you had something then you would tell him and he should trust you to do this. this relationship sounds like it could be trouble, i would give it up now and leave each other alone...if he cant commit to spend more time with you 'm sure there is someone else out there who can.x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Have you seen where he's living? Has he explained why he only sees you on the weekends? If you know where he lives, why not give him a "surprise" visit this next Wednesday evening? You may find it very enlightening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Hi girlfriend,
It sounds like he is just using you. If he doesn't want to spend quality time with you and only sees you on the weekends - it sounds like he is still married and is playing around with both you and his wife. I would confront him with what you are thinking/feeling. I think his response will tell you something - watch for body language that tells you if he's lying or not. Good luck sister!
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