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writes:This is a question to be answered by the fellas. It seems it is so confusing what you guys want. You all want sex and you want to sleep with a girl early on in a relationship. But, if a girl does sleep with you early on, then she is too easy and you become uninterested. These days though, if you make a guy wait for you, often he will just move on because there are other girls that will sleep with him. So what is a girl to do? I am looking for a long term relationship, and I don't know what you guys want from a girl that you want to keep around for a long time. Any insights?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Shrug, what do women want? You want a guy who is nice, one you can depend on, who treats you right, yet you date the once who treat you like dirt.
You can't figure out the other sex and according to a gay friend it don't even work with your own sex.
But here is a simple hint, if a guy gives up on you after you refuse sex early on then he sure as hell wasn't really intrested in you.
If he stays with you it doesn't mean he really is intrested in you necessarly, just that he is really intrested in sex.
The best way to judge a potential partner is NOT to look at how he/she is with you but how he/she is with other people. He/she wants something from you and that means they will be on their best behaviour. See how they treat strangers or people in service industries (waiters are a perfect example) for their real personality.
What a guy really wants depends on the guy and the woman he is with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Men want what they can't have. Play hard to get. Let him seek you.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 dont have sex till it feels right, a relationship should just flow, it shouldnt be pre planned! xx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 February 2009):
 I know you want to hear from the guys but I just had to put my two cents in. Sweetheart, women have been pondering this question for centuries, I doubt you will get any questions that truly clear this up for you.
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