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he kissed me goodnight on the cheek! Does that mean he's "not" interested?

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Question - (8 January 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:


Meet this guy and he is so sweet was the perfect gentlemen during the date, but l was so shy and quite and they where very quite moments during the date, but opened up as the date was coming to an end, but when he dropped me off he shook my hand and kissed me on my left cheek and pulled me in for the second kiss on the cheek

Does that mean he is not interested help....

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A male reader, Zim United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2007):

Zim agony auntThis guy sounds like he does the same thing I do. I never kiss a girl on the lips on a first date because I want them to know that I like them a lot for who they are inside, not just how attractive they look. I think he was just trying to show you that your looks aren't the only thing that is attracting him to you.

Hold onto him. He sounds like the real deal. I agree with Lilly223, call him, say you had a good time and ask for a second date? Hope it goes well! ZIM

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 January 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntAHHHH a true gentleman, a dying breed I'm afraid. Hope you can hang on to him. Good luck.

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A female reader, Jovial South Africa +, writes (8 January 2007):

Jovial agony aunti think this is the sweetest guy ever, this days to end a date like this is very rare i dont know why most people if not all dont enjoy a once used to be very special peck on the cheek after a date anymore, i really missed that and often i have to insist after my date knelt to get the real you know what, this is something that have to be special and make u guys wants to have a second date, but we are loosing our second dates bcos during the first one we give all away.

so sister i will say relax and enjoy mr nice guy, he saw how u carried urself and realsed u are conservative and he respected that. if its true he is not interested atleast u had fun and u have no regrets.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007):

The bloke did just the right thing. You don't want a full on snog on the first date, he sounds very respectful to me. Taking things slowly and seeing how you two get on. Get to know each other and the propert kissing will come at the right time. He sounds like he does like you or he wouldn't of kissed you at all. Take things nice and easy. If it happens it happens but don't be in too much of a hurry. Enjoy it.

Take care


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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (8 January 2007):

eddie agony auntWow, guys can't win!! He was being respectful. If he had tried to seduce you, you would possible be calling him a pig. It's better for a guy to be cautious and repsectful then to blow ay future chances. Take a look at the words you used to describe yourself during the dadte. Maybe he thought you didn't have fun. Maybe he's wondering why you didn't try to kiss him a litle more. The truth is this, it sounds like everything went fine. You'll know soon enough.

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A female reader, miki06 +, writes (8 January 2007):

miki06 agony auntYep i agree with Lilly call him and tell him u had a great time and would love to do it again. I think i've heard before that if u go on a 3rd date, its a score! ^.^ goodluck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007):

my boyfriend was just like that he probably is interested and is just being a gentlemen on the first date...hes also probably shy around sure it will work out if you continue to see him just dont take it as a sign that hes not interested he probably is......

best of wishes

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A female reader, Lilly223 United States +, writes (8 January 2007):

Lilly223 agony auntI wouldn't assume that he is not interested, I would assume that he is continuing to be a gentleman. If you are interested in seeing him again, I would call/email him that you had a great time, and you would like to do it again. Then wait and see....

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