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How can I tell if one of my guy friends likes me as just a friend or more?

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Question - (8 January 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Lately, when we are hanging out with a group of friends, he'll give me more attention than other girls and I always end up catching him looking at me from time to time and when I do, I either stare back at him and he'll continue to stare back at me or I'll ask him why he's staring and he'll just get red, look down, and not answer me or say "nothing". Also, he has been trying to look nicer and always says hi to me first in a different softer voice than he does with others and he is constantly teasing and flirting with me and whether standing or sitting, he tries to get closer to me. He's even started walking me to and from a couple of classes.

Is he just being a good friend or is it more than that

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

to me , it definately sounds like he likess you!

if you feel the same, tell him.

good luck =]

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A male reader, idoneitagain Australia +, writes (13 January 2007):

I wish there was a way you could definitely know too! Unfortunately there is no way of definitely knowing. He might not even know himself! The only way to know is to try, and sometimes we succeed, sometimes we don't. Either way, you will learn valuable life experiences. We shouldn't be afraid to try and get what we want, and we shouldn't be afriad to fail either. Failing is part of life too, it is trying things in life which is the key to living, and learning.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Hey, thanks for the response!

Yeah, I guess I do like him a bit. I just wish there was a clue or a hint or a sign or something that I would know for sure that he likes me like that before I do anything, but maybe I'll work up the courage and ask him...?

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A male reader, idoneitagain Australia +, writes (10 January 2007):

Sounds like he likes you. I could be wrong, but the fact that you are writing this letter suggests that you think he does. How do you feel about him, do you like him? If you do, either just tell him you like him, or ask him if he likes you. Often, boys are shy just like girls are, just as worried about being rejected. How brave do you feel? If you have the courage, you can tell him how you feel, otherwise if you like him, just invite him to meet with you at a time and place that is appropriate, and go from there. Don't be scared to be true to yourself.

Good luck.

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