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writes:I am a 47 year old woman who is on her second marriage. My first marriage lasted 15 years and my husband divorced me for another woman. I am on my second marriage of 6 years. My husband is really a kind and caring man. There is an issue that bugs me and I want to know if I am over reacting. Now that Facebook is the rage he has tons of women as friends. Most are from school/work/or my married girl friends, but I don't know them all. As well as having the woman on facebook, I just found out that he sends about 50 text every 2 weeks to women and men alike, married and single friends that we both know, just telling them "Hope all is well, pray you have a blessed day" or some other harmless text to let them know he is thinking of them. I don't mind his men friends but why the woman too? I know I am coming off jealous but if I did this to the husbands of my girlfriends or his guy friends I think it would be odd. Am I over reacting? And, yes I really trust my husband I don't think he would ever cheat he is not like that, just really spiritual and caring. He feels he is being a good christian.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6NdPrqgGt0
If you copy and paste this into your browser, you will see the humorous video about FaceBook ruining relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): I don't think you have anything to worry about, Facebook, is just a way to keep in touch and let people what is going on in your life, I mean 50% of the population or so are women, is he supposed to ignore them, does he work with women? Did he go to school with women and keeps in touch that way?
If it bugs you tell him, but Facebook is a silly thing to be jealous over if that is your biggest worry you are lucky.
There is a funny video on UTube about this very subject,
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): honestly i don't think so cause your first marriage ended cause of another woman and you really love this new guy and im sure you wouldn't want it to end the same way or worse. and i totally understand that you're not jealous or mistrusting your husband but you do wanna know that whats yours is only yours.
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