A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met someone online for more than a year we have been internet friends, he planned to come meet me and see what happens, he has other friends also that he plans to meet in my country. He always told me he will not fall in love online and only desperate ppl claim they are in love and it's not really love but infatuation. To make the long story short, I found out he has an online gf who he denied and said he can't fall for this type of girl. This girl still talks to him no matter how many proofs I've shown her, this gal and I talked and she said they are both in love. This guy told me he has not found the one yet but he has an online gf for a long time, so even though he has an online gf, he was telling me he is still online dating, it was fine with me since we are friends, coz I have other male friends too and they also plan to meet me, I don't want to commit with anyone online for my own safety, he told me same things too but yet he broke his rules and keep denying he is already committed with someone online.How do you describe this guy and his online gf? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Dont meet up with this man. Clearly he is lying to you about having a gf and not, what else is he lying about? Also he sounds like an ass. Its very possible to love someone you met online, and that doesnt make you desperate. Who's he to judge? Probably he fancies himself too "good" for an online love, and is just stringing this gf of his along. She on the other hand may actually be serious about her relationship and blinded by love does not see how much of a jerk this man is.
In the end though, its none of your business who he dates or not. If the gf wont listen, let her be and sort out her own life.
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