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*francy
writes:Well compliments of the new year to every one, my problem is i have been dating a guy for four months and things has been goin pretty well until he started breaking off the communication between us recently.. During the time we were on good terms he happen to cheat on me with another gal so i broke up with him without telling him the reason why.. I then went back to him and we made up.. And then later he broke up with that gal.. The time he has been cheating he kept silent for some days just like he is doing now.. Is it possible that he is seeing somebody else again.. And what should i do now?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (13 January 2012):
 Dump him.
You can do better.
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 January 2012):
 Happy New Year to you as well,
Four months is not a long time to be dating
HE has cheated once
He has stopped communication with you which was what he did the last time he cheated
What makes him such a prize that you are willing to accept sloppy seconds from him?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 January 2012):
 At four months into a new relationship, he cuts contact? Not a good sign, whether or not he's cheating.
I think it's probably best just to let this one go, based on his past history of cheating AND going "no contact." Make the break permanent and let him know exactly why should he ever ask. Don't be afraid of being clear and concise and precise about your feelings.
"John, the reason I broke up with you last time was because you cheated. The reason I'm breaking up with you this time is because you suddenly vanished again and my trust is gone. Have a good life, I hope things work out for you, I am moving on."
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (13 January 2012):
He is a cheat, end your relationship and tell him why. Find someone better. He will probably cheat on everyone.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (13 January 2012):
 Umm, why did you not confront him of his cheating the first time? Why did you break up with him and not tell him why?
Then, you go back to him after he cheated, and you're surprised that he's cheating again?
Time to grow a spine, tell him that you're through with his cheating ways, and leave him for good. Who cares who he's seeing. He's a serial cheater, and he is no good.
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