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writes: My long-term boyfriend got a girl pregnant.He is begging to win me back.Does he deserve a second chance? Reply to this Question
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (2 February 2006):
 Think about the way he's treating the pregnant ex. He's showing no sense of responsibility or respect or care. Has he offered any emotional support to her? Is he willing to be a dad, or are they planning to have an abortion? Is he happy about the pregnancy, is he worried about his responsibilities to her or their child, or does he even care?
Looking at this situation from the outside will give you a window into the way that you're likely to be treated by him, should you let him back into your life. Your question is too light on detail to give you many specifics, but from the way it reads, he's simply walked away from the pregnant one, and now thinks he'd rather be with you. But given the way he's mistreated her, why would he think to treat you with any love, care or respect?
I'd say you should send him back to the girl he left pregnant and tell him that he needs to look after the child he helped create, but leave him right out of your life.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (2 February 2006):
 Do you want a serious answer?
NO
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006): No way,kick his ass out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006): Well, your message was really short, so without the whole tale its hard to pass judgement...but as to whether he deserves a second chance...probably not.
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