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writes: hey guys. My ex and i broke up about 2 months ago. His little bro got sent 2 juvie and a few other things happened that wasn't so great, but he said he was too stressed to think about anything and didnt want a gf for a while. We're both 17 n had been going out for just over a year. We were really close and he always treated me like a princess. I dont talk to him or see him that much anymore, but when i do he acts exactly the same as when we were going out (or tries lol) im tryin to get over him but he's so confusing. I just think if he doesn't want me then he doesnt get to touch. Im not being treated like an idiot. I know guys think bout sex heaps but its not that he just wants to touch, he talks to me like were going out n treats me like it too. Whats goin on if he dusnt want a gf???
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reader, Floppy +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Hello,I see you still like this guy, and to be honest you were together for a long time, but you can't let him get his own way, even if he has had it tough!If i was in your position, i would be blunt with him when i was in his precence and keep a standard conversation going over the mobile, if we spoke. A guy who knows that you're there for some 'fun' or a bit of love when he needs it, will definatly take advantage. He won't feel he needs to have you as a girlfriend because he is already getting what he wants from you. In my opinion i think you should basically, play it blunt with him for a bit, make him get the message that he can't just have you when he wants you. He must give you commitment and not just treat you like someone he met for a one night stand! Good luck, make him know your more than that!
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reader, shania  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 I think for your own peace of mind,you should sever all links with him,i can understand that he has had family problems etc but its not fair on you that he keeps stringing you along when it suits him.He ended the relationship so therefore he doesn't have the right to touch you in a intimate way or keep you hanging on....giving you false hope.To get over him,you would have to stop all contact with him....otherwise you are just going to be more and more upset...hoping he will change his mind...maybe he will,who knows? Your young so go out and meet people, you dont need to be tied to a fella who cant give you his full commitment to you.
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