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My name is Donna Johnson and i am 17 years old, currently doing my A levels. I am studying English language, Sociology and Health and Social Care!
I currently live up in the North-East England and have been in a relationship with a guy called Tom Glenn for a year now.
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I'm a virgin but want to have sex with my boyfriend, I'm scared of the pain.
Q. Hi I am a 20 year old virgin... I can get almost any guy but the problem is that I'm scared of the pain. My boyfriend and I try having sex a lot but it seems like he's killing me down there and it hurts... Should I take some medicine b4? I need some ...
A. 1 May 2006: Hello love, having sex shouldnt be painful, it should be a very sensual experience. Try to relax and not get worked up when it comes down to having sex, if you're relaxed it will give you more of a chance to enjoy the 'foreplay' before hand whi... (read in full...)
Shes really popular and im scared to ask her out!!
Q. I fancy this girl who is really popular. We speak alot on msn and at school but i never see her outside of school. she likes me as a friend but i want to be more than a friend. I have a feeling though that my mate who is really good looking ...
A. 30 April 2006: Hello, make a move first before your mate gets there first!! There is no need to be worried about how popular this girl is because if she fancies you popularity wont matter. Popularity really aint anything, it is deep down in the heart that really m... (read in full...)
My mom told my dad that I'm not a virgin!
Q. My mom just told my dad that I'm not a virgin anymore. How can I talk to my dad about this? He's going to be fuming and I'm already angry at my mom for doing this without consulting me because if anything I should have been the one who told him ...
A. 29 April 2006: Hello, your dad has been told now, you dont really need to do anything. If your dad is concerned he will speak to you about it, just answer his questions honestly if he does, but the chances are he wont say anything, men often dont, mothers ... (read in full...)
Will my ex go back out with me??
Q. ello ppl, i am 15 and i went out wiv this boy for 2 months but he dumped me a month ago cos it didnt work out cos we never really saw eachother very much... i agree - things weren't working. but i still like him... do u think he would go out wiv me ...
A. 29 April 2006: Hello, try talking to him and see if it is what is wants, but chances are he may have already moved on. Make plans on how you could see each other more and then talk to him about them! If you can overcome the factors which broke you up in the firs... (read in full...)
He needs space to deal with his grief but I am losing my paitence!!
Q. Well i was going out with a guy until recently when he said that he needed space since his great nana has just died and we dont know each other that well. I've been careful to let him make all the flirting and communicating and ive had to learn to...
A. 29 April 2006: Hello, in my opinion i dont think you should be hard on this guy, he obviously was close to his nanna and it isn't fair to be unpatient with him when at this moment in time, he should have as long as it takes to get over his grief. If he dont do ... (read in full...)
How do I get a girlfriend??
Q. How do I get a girl friend??...
A. 29 April 2006: Hello, just act yourself around people, chart to girls and flirt with them, but don't exaggerate yourself. Just make girls see who you are and joke along with them. Should get their eye on you! Good luck! But don't try to be somebody your not! ... (read in full...)
Im having a hard time releasing the fact that Im gay, Please help?
Q. I need some help, I'm gay and I have a boyfriend. I know that NO ONE suspects me at all as I have ladies always hinting things and flirting with me, so no one suspects a thing people just think that I haven't meet the special one yet. Thing is,...
A. 28 April 2006: Hello, for startes, you shouldn't be scared of who you are! You should be proud. Tell people that you;re gay and i bet they will respect you more than you think they will. Tell them in a subtle way and say that you have been scared to tell them but... (read in full...)
How do I choose, my boyfriend or my friend?
Q. I went out with this guy for about three months and he cheated on me, couple months later I went out with my best friend. We dated for about a month until my ex came back to the picture. I've been with him for 5 months. My best friend has talked ...
A. 28 April 2006: Hello, Do what your heart says to do.. You feel that you were once in love with your boyfriend, who by the sounds of it, isn't really a guy to be trusted seen as he did cheat on you in your first relationship. You still have feelings for your fri... (read in full...)
Found my brother and our stepmum in flagrante!
Q. I am 15 year old girl and yesterday I caught my 17 year old brother having sex with our 30 year old stepmum. I was totally disgusted at the sight of brother and stepmum going at it like rabbits the moment they caught sight of me they jumped out of b...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, Simply darling, you need to tell your father. At first he probably won't believe you, and tell him it isn't your brothers fault and that he has initially been forced into it to keep him out of trouble! It isn't right for your step-mum... (read in full...)
Is it good to be thinking about her ALL the time? And I mean, like, 24/7!?
Q. Hi, Im 19 and have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 3 months now. It occured to me the other day, that i think about her ALL the time, and i really do mean 'ALL' the time! Theres not a moment when shes not on my mind! I was j...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, falling in love will mean that this girl will always be on your mind, wondering what she is doing? where she is? who she is with? when you're next going to see her? however, make sure you don't forget about other important things... what you... (read in full...)
My bf and I have been going through a rough patch for awhile...what should I do?
Q. OK well my boyfriend and i have been having troubles. We are both 16 and have been going through a rough patch for about a month, neither of us know why it's not the same as it was. We just seem to argue about the smallest things. I love him, and he ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, I know how you feel darling, my advice to you would be to give him a little bit of time. For a few days, have about half as much contact with him as you do at the moment. By this time he should have learnt that he will miss you if he ever los... (read in full...)
I have two problems, in need of advice!
Q. I have two major problems. I have been with my boyfriend for a month, and recently, some things happened, and he's got a lot of things going on in his head. He's been making excuses not to see me now. Is this normal? Is it just because he needs...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, If you are adament that you have no feelings for your 'friend' STOP THE JEALOUSY NOW! This may eb what is playing on your boyfriends mine, he may be assuming this from your reactions when you're with your boyfriend! I would adice you to giv... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend like my friends and there is this one guy I like but I'm scared to start anything...what should I do?
Q. hey i have a group of best friends and all of them have boyfriends and always talk about them i have never had a proper boyfriend and it gets deppressing sometimes. im 14 and im brunette tallish and im curvy. there is this boy and we are friends ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, Falling in love with a friend is complicated. However, feelings cannot be held aside darling! Flirt with him more and see if you get a reaction back, if you do then i would suggest that you should make a move on him, but give it a bit of t... (read in full...)
Trust is an issue because he's lied to me several times. How do we build the trust again?
Q. my bf and i been together for 2 years on a long distance relationship. Trust had always been an issue. He had lied to me in several times and it has hurted me a lot; but I've been wanted to give it a try 'cause i love him. Now, he lives closer to ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, This guy obviously has not given you many reasons for you to trust him, but i'm sorry darling, a relationship without trust will not work. This guy shouldn't be bothered about you checking through him mobile phone if he has nothing to hide.... (read in full...)
I told my male friend that I loved him and I think I scared him off....
Q. i told a close male friend that i loved him, but i didnt mean to make him uncomfotable, he didnt say it back he just said 'thats sweet of u'. i feel abit embarrassed now, but i thought we were heading towards that, as he said he really liked me and ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, Telling this guy your true feelings was the wise thing to do, keeping feelings locked up hurts and becomes rather depressing. Although, when you told him, it probably came as a bit of a shock to him, but you obviously have something special ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really childish and isn't changing. What should I do?
Q. my boyfriend of (9)nine years is still acting childish and it's a big keep back in our relationship i really do love him but it's really fustrating.now i'm meeting other people that i'm attracted to and i have feelings for one. what should i do ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, my advice is that you should talk to your boyfriend about his actions again, make him realise that it is really upsetting you and that you are getting put off by him. Make him understand how you feel, and if he doesn't grow up then move on!... (read in full...)
Sweet 19 and never been kissed!
Q. Hey, I now, through the powers of online anonimity, declare that I am a hetrosexual 19 year old male who has never even kissed a girl. Now, some may argue this is down to me being socially inept. Here's the backstory. I have no brothers or sist...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, There is no rush for the first kiss, if you relax and concentrate on your friends and uni then the girl of your dreams will be just around the corner! However, if it doesn't happen soon, don't give up hope, because one day the perfect ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes to aggrevate me about my breasts, why does he do this?
Q. my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs. will make jokes about my breasts. saying they are little and all, but then when I try to ignore it he will make another joke, then it bothers me and he will apologize and say he is just joking and that my breasts are ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, Don't worry about what your boyfriend may think about your body, but if it bothers you too much then you should move on and find someone who won't treat you like this. It isn't fair to mock your body, he should be with you for who you are ... (read in full...)
His new bitchy gf is poisoning his mind against his friends...how do we stop this?
Q. For about five years I've had 3 best friends- a girl and two boys. We are all really close and spend a lot of time together. We've had girlfriends and boyfriends in the past but now one of my best friends, one of the boys, has a girlfriend. Normally ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, My opinion to this problem is that you should try to explain how this girl is being towards you, if it doesn't get through to him. If this doesn't work, try recording this girl using your mobile phones and showing it to your friend. This may... (read in full...)
When will my periods start?
Q. when do my periods start? i have been waiting for 15 years...i can't take this much more, all my mates are bleeding but i am not ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, Don't worry yourself darling, your time will be here soon, your getting through into your mid-teens now, and you should be starting soon. If you don't however, i would advice you to go and have a chat with your doctor. However, don't worry be... (read in full...)
She admitted she has kissed other guys, what am I to do about this?
Q. I went out with my girlfriend the other night and we got chatting to a couple of guys whilst we were out, we ended up going to a club with them and I saw one of the guys come out of the toilet walk up to my gf and kiss her. I hit the guy a few times ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello,
Your girlfriend by the sounds of it, likes the attention. You should have a good talk with her and tell her how you feel. If you can not trust her anymore then you and her aren't right. If you feel you want to carry on being a couple then... (read in full...)
Help! My mom hates my bf...should I leave him or try to make it work out?
Q. Hi i am having a problem....my mother hates my boyfreind of nine months and so she has baned me from talking to himm she took my cell phone and everything eles away she also pulled me out of school...should i leave him or stay with him and try ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, Obviously you know what your boyfeind is like, whether is is faithful towards you or not, his backgroud, and maybe the answers as to why your mother doesn't like him. However, if you feel this guy is perfect and is right for you, you shou... (read in full...)
He don't want a girlfriend, then why does he want to touch me and treat me like one?
Q. hey guys. My ex and i broke up about 2 months ago. His little bro got sent 2 juvie and a few other things happened that wasn't so great, but he said he was too stressed to think about anything and didnt want a gf for a while. We're both 17 n had ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, I see you still like this guy, and to be honest you were together for a long time, but you can't let him get his own way, even if he has had it tough! If i was in your position, i would be blunt with him when i was in his precence and kee... (read in full...)
My possesive ex is threatening to kill himself but i really dont want to be with him. Please help!!1
Q. Hi. I am quite scared as this has never happened to me before. I went out with a guy. It was more a rebound from my ex of 3 years. WE were together about 2/3 months and I realised I still liked my ex and also that this guy was very possesiv...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, This guy is trying to blackmail you for your attention, if you ignore his text messages and try to take him off your mind, he should son get the message, however if he doesn't threaten him by telling him you will go to the police if he conti... (read in full...)
He's my best friend and he's engaged to be married, and we're kissing and fooling around together!?
Q. I am 17. I have known my 22 year old best friend for a little over a year now. He is like a brother to me, and he is the greatest person I have ever met. He has been happily engaged for over a year (shortly before i met him) and i am good friends ...
A. 28 March 2006: Hello, The question really is, do you feel this guy is your best friend, or could he be more? He has a fiance, but if he really cared for her he wouldn't be 'mucking around' behind her back. If he isn't being faithful to her at the moment, before t... (read in full...)
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