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writes:I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By that I mean we text each other all day and I like it but I was really hurt that he didnt text me for four hours because he was at his friend's house... He didnt tell me so though and usually when he replies later, he gives a reason but he didnt. It was infurther conversation that he told me was at his friend's house. Is it wrong for me to be hurt by this?
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reader, bhambird +, writes (31 May 2009):
I dont think you should be hurt worried if anything because you are so far apart you didnt know why he didnt txt you bak even if it was just to say " Im off to a mates i'll txt you tomorrow" anything could of been wrong, Explain that you would prefer it if he would say next time he's catching up with friends and not leave you woundering if everythings alright or not. well done for having a distant relationship i live with my partner and can't find him at the best of times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Thank you for the advice everyone... :)
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reader, shania +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Fellas get side tracked....i wouldn't worry too much about it, you two are very young and a long distance relationship can be very testing...have fun and go out yourself, i know you are very keen on him but you need to focus on yourself for a change.
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reader, mesugarbabe  +, writes (31 December 2008):
I think the right thing for him to have said is that he was going to be busy with a friend of his first since this was the "normal" thing for the two of you. It is how ever possible that he was side tracked at the time. I also think I am a reasonable person in saying this to you that it is important for people to have free time they shouldn't have to accountable for and it dosn't mean that he cares for you less because he wanted some alone time with a friend. I have found that in relationships of any kind people need time for more then one person and sad to say but if you don't allow this for him then you are pushing him away in a since. You also need time for yourself to relax,read,take a walk,visit a friend or be with your family. I don't think however that I would call it normal behavior to only spend time with only one person, its just not healthy and maybe for the time being try to relax the relationship and try to not sweat over the small stuff in life. Give love always and wish the very best for you both...
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (31 December 2008):
it was wrong of him not to tell you but don't stress him over it
don't reply his texts next time he text, let him wonder why
pretend to be been busy ,see what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): he's a guy. they were probably playing video games or something. i know all of my guy friends do, and i'm seventeen. guys are always guys, so don't worry about it, love. you've gotta be a little more flexible with long distance relationships. don't start questioning yourself or worrying, because if he didn't like you you wouldn't be together. i hope i made you feel better. good luck 3
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reader, tanpopo +, writes (31 December 2008):
 it's a little silly to be hurt by this but you have feelings for him. don't worry too much.
if the friend was female then i can understand a bit more worry but in the long run let him know how you feel about it.
why just let it sit?
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reader, confessjess +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Don't take it to seriously, he should be able to hang out with friends.
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