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He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?

Q.   I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...

A.   31 December 2008:  I think the right thing for him to have said is that he was going to be busy with a friend of his first since this was the "normal" thing for the two of you. It is how ever possible that he was side tracked at the time. I also think I am a ... (read in full...)

I found a condom in his computer bag. How do I ask him about it?

Q.   I have been living with this man for over a year and a half now...we have several animals together..I have met, and have a relationship with his family and friends...It seems to me that we are taking steps to lenghthen our future together...BUT..he ...

A.   30 December 2008: You should ask him. You have the right to know. Mostly I have found that condoms are sold in a package not sold one by one. Its possible that he was lonely and needed some attention so to spack. I think you need to confront this man about a thing or ... (read in full...)

I'm worried sick out of my mind and don't know who to get help from.

Q.   My partner has been lying about going to work, says he had bad nerves we were fighting, he hates the fact my teenage son leaves his room a mess we got over that. He then stayed, said he loved me etc, i tried calling him all day no reply then i ...

A.   30 December 2008:  It appairs this man needs to clear his head a bit and distancing himself from you for the time being. I understand how tarrible you must feel because he won't call you and has problbly told others that he needs space, witch I don't think it was ... (read in full...)

Male Thong

Q.   I have been wearing a thong for the past 5 years and I find them very comfortable. I have many different colours. I am straight and have a girlfriend but she says only gays wear throngs and makes fun of me. Is it unnattural for a male to wear a ...

A.   29 December 2008: I think your girlfriend is just not used to men wearing these and has never seen this before. I myself think it's sexier than boxers or briefs. ... (read in full...)

I am afraid I have ruined my marriage with this affair, what to do?

Q.   Hello Cupids I apologize in advance as this may get a bit long, and any advice is welcome so please do reply if you have any thoughts. I will try to keep it clear and organized but my head is a mess so sorry if this story seems messy too. I ...

A.   29 December 2008:  You should break it off with J tell him that you need to confess this to your husband. You need to tell your husband as soon as possible if you want any chance at keeping any trust at all with him. Also you want him to hear this for you not an ... (read in full...)

Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?

Q.   I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...

A.   29 December 2008:  I wouldn't do this for a lot of reasons. If you do are you and your wife perpaired for a dispute over who will rais this child. He may fight you for this in court and you need to think about and bring this unborn child first. He may be totally ... (read in full...)

Am I wasting time waiting for him? He was unfaithful.

Q.   me and my boyfriend were going through a hard time recently, (all down to him being unfaithfull last year)i dont always bring it up but there are times when it gets to me and i do make references about it. over the phone we had a discussion, mainly ...

A.   29 December 2008:  My thinking is this man feels a since of guilt and wants you to decide if you want to date him, without being held accountable for his actions. He knows you want to be with him and only him so this is why he is giving this choise to you. You need ... (read in full...)

Just lost my job and boyfriend says I should go to live with my dad...

Q.   I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 years, I am getting laid off from my job next month my bf says I should go and live with my dad, my dad does not know we are living together, I really am confused, I don't know what to do. I want to stay ...

A.   29 December 2008:  You need to point out to him that due to the econmey and the reasent news of the resession alot of people are going to be out of work, laid off or fired from their place of employment. Tell him you didn't choise to get laid off and in life these ... (read in full...)

Sleeping with the boss

Q.   hi everyone, i want your opinion in this matter. i work in a small firm and just lately i got into an affair with my boss, she's a really nice girl. i started to hear multi reviews about this realtionship, some say that i might lose my jop if any...

A.   29 December 2008:  Most the time we just can't control who we fall in love with. The question here is are you willing to consiter a different job. I find it hard to imangin being with someone at work and a home and this aspect of it won't be enjoyable later on. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant? Could I be?

Q.   let get to the point. i jerked him off, he cummed, he washed his hands, then fingered me. am i pregnant???...

A.   29 December 2008:  I think it is possible,but very unlikely, if he washed his hands before he "fingered" you. I would definatly write down the date this occured and also please remember that if you sleep with someone this always carries the added stress that you may ... (read in full...)

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