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Taking pill, maybe I'm becoming anemic now?

Q.   Hi!I'm completely new to this website, but I was wondering if someone could help set my mind at ease. I've recently started taking the pill, and I have been sure to take it everyday at the same time, and as instructed started to take it on the first ...

A.   31 December 2008: The pill actually helps if your iron diff anemic. It is unlikely to cause anemia. Take a multivitamin if you are worried. You can also get a blood test or talk to a doctor if you are really worried. The pill will mess with your hormones and it will ... (read in full...)

He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?

Q.   I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...

A.   31 December 2008: Don't take it to seriously, he should be able to hang out with friends.... (read in full...)

Did I break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

Q.   i was in my room and experimetin with a ----- as my partents were not home, to start with it wouldni go in to my vigina and then i added a little water to it and it then when in really easy, but it went in really fast to andd i felt a small pain and ...

A.   19 December 2008: I broke my Hyman before ever having intercourse and still experienced pain. Your still a virgin until you have sex.... (read in full...)

Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!

Q.   my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...

A.   18 December 2008: If it is so important to you, you can wait till your 18, if you can't maybe you should look at this situation more clearly.... (read in full...)

Are ladies turned off by heavy guys?

Q.   Im over weight, How much does that turn ladies off?...

A.   18 December 2008: I've been attracted to both thick and thin, it comes down to how you put yourself out there. But truthfully if you see your self as to heavy, you should look at getting to a fitter weight for your self so you can live a longer cleaner lifestyle. It ... (read in full...)

What is the right age to have sex?

Q.   hiya people i have a problem what is the right age for sex? I am 18 and my girlfriend wants to have sex. should i do it or am i too young?...

A.   17 December 2008: If you are both at a legal age than it comes down to when you are both comfortable and have taken correct precautions and understand the risks involved in doing so.... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago and now my period is late!!!

Q.   I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago. We used protection and everything went well. The condom didn't split because we checked afterwards. However, my period is a few days late and I'm starting to worry I could be pregnant. I didn't think you could ...

A.   17 December 2008: Even if used correctly condoms are not 100%. You could be pregnant, but periods can be off for different reasons. I'm 18, and from time to time my period gets off track. It would help us better if we know how late you where.... (read in full...)

What should I do with my pubic hair?

Q.   I don't know whether or not to shave my pubic hair. I have shaved it in the past, but let it grow back as I was not sure if girls are 'meant to' do this - I heard that it is a matter of opinion, but I am still unsure of what to do - where and how ...

A.   17 December 2008: I shave unruly areas, but leave a patch, I find it more comfortable and attractive personally. Plus it looks better with bathing suits for it is all cleaned up down there, whatever you find most comfortable. You have a while before you should worry ... (read in full...)

22 year old virgin. What can I do?

Q.   I am 22 years old and still a virgin. My friends think it's very strange and laugh at me. Are there other women in the same situation? Even my bf was turned off when I told him? How do i get him back?...

A.   17 December 2008: I don't think it is something to worry about, if he leaves you because of this, than he is just a silly boy. When you are ready for sex, and I know a lot of people worry about awkwardness all I can say is that I found it very natural. I don't ... (read in full...)

Any tips for making sex beautiful?

Q.   Ladies please reply. What makes sex enjoyable for you? What about sex is satisfying for you? How do you define good sex and good loving? Ladies, in your opinion what makes sex beautiful? Any tips for making sex beautiful? ...

A.   17 December 2008: Ladies please reply. What makes sex enjoyable for you? What about sex is satisfying for you? How do you define good sex and good loving? Ladies, in your opinion what makes sex beautiful? Any tips for making sex beautiful? I don't know if beau... (read in full...)

Will he leave me for his models?

Q.   I NEED HELP! I have a wonderful boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 wonderful years. He is very artistic and loves to do artwork on my body. Recently he got a job to work for Bubble Magazine. He can't use the same model over and over because ...

A.   17 December 2008: As an artist, I have drawn many a nude model. In my case as well as all my artist friends we tend to look at these models more as objects, or still lives if you prefer. I really don't think you have to worry about it, and being paranoid could make ... (read in full...)

He sends such mixed messages do he like me?

Q.   So there's this guy in my class. We'll call him Johnathan I knew him ever since seventh grade. When we first met in seventh grade we hated each other. But as the years went on in tenth grade we became very fond of each other where we were telling ...

A.   17 December 2008: I think there might be something there, it seems to me that in growing up together you both have seen good and bad in each other and him missing you or talking about you all the time is a defiant go I think. And him treating you rudely earlier might ... (read in full...)

His parents think I'm going to de-flower him!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Last month, I turned seventeen. My boyfriend of almost seven weeks will turn fourteen in March. Despite the age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. He seems to always know what to say whenever it feels like my world is crashin...

A.   17 December 2008: I would suggest some sort of promise or purity ring to show them that you have made a promise to god that you intend to remain pure until you marriage night. It might help put them a little more at ease especially if they see you or their son ... (read in full...)

He's a vrigin I'm not!

Q.   Hey everybody, So there is a guy who I have been dating for about about a year. We had known each other for about 3 years but never really talked. He is so sweet, kind, and understanding. He is much older than I and more intelligent. Well he is a ...

A.   17 December 2008: I think you should be truthful with him. Lay your cards on the table. In the end this should be something you can overcome together, especially if you intend on refraining from sex with him until marriage. If he can not see past this, than it ... (read in full...)

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