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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello!!! This question is for the man, I guess. Well, for 2 years almost I have been recovering from a failed relationship that deeply broke my heart. In the middle, I've been on dates, but no sparks, therefore, no kisses, no nothing. Finally a couple of weeks ago seemed that I woke up for life...I saw this really intriguin guy sitting at work. We often talked about nerdy interestig subjects. Everytime I looked at him, I'd catch him looking at me, then, embarassed, I would turn away . I am kind of shy until warm up... especially around people and that happened at work. He started coming very often (he was in my town on vacation, comes 2x/year )and I ended up writing him in his public online profile (since apparently he was leaving and none of us were making any move besides the whole flirting). He wrote me back this really sweet email, telling me how delighted he was, because he actually saw me 3 years before at work and was overwhelmed on how beautiful I was. He told me he comes every year and always had this terrible crush on me and that felt really good to finally admit. He told me that for the past 3 weeks (time he was in town for) he was in the verge to invite me out, he never did because 1) he is shy 2 ) he lives in another town and thought that it would frustate him when he had to leave 3) He just had had ended a relationship and they were still talking and considering being back together. We changed a couple of great emails on a daily basis, his dad came in town and he actually tried to include me in their dinner one night...but I never answered that message, as I thought it was too early for that. We decided to go to the movies, he picked me up and was a perfect gentleman. Did not stop looking at me and telling me how great I looked. In some part of the movie, he held my arm, then my hands and we kept like that. After the movies, he asked me if I would care for sitting in the beach and enjoy the weather and beautiful sky. Well, besides the fact he told me he was shy, he then kissed me...kiss was not good at all, but I had a wonderful time...we stayed in the beach till 3 am (I never really kissed on first date). Besides the good time, because of the bad kiss I did not think he would invite me out again...but 2 days later I came home to find 4 emails and 2 calls saying he had to leave town before planned and he really wanted to see me. We went to a second movie, just me and him at the theaters we held hands the whole time and he kept kissing my hair from time to time, that was it. After the movie he came up with a place for us to go, not the beach. We got there, laid next to each other and talked for a long time...then we kind of spooned and the hot making out started (never did that on a second date either,lol). The kiss was sooooooo better and I behaved awful...did NOT let him touch or kiss my body, I could NOT, but I did touch him almost all over the place, kissed his chest, waist bone, stomach (I know, terrible). He mentioned, he couldn't decide if this was the sexiest and most enjoyable moment of his life or the biggest torture he ever went through. Well, got back home by 4 am...he came over to work next the morning to say bye and tell me he was coming back on FEBRUARY ...asked me if I'd be there, I said I hoped so. We said we'd keep in touch. Back to his city, I heard from him ONCE...got there safe and sound and missed me already pretty sweet girl. Never again...it's been a week...no calls either. I am 29 - he is 37. What do you think is up ?? Did I scare the guy ?? Was he trying to use me ?? Or maybe he is back with the ex ??Just here with a big question mark after the great time I had... I never was that BOLD (and bad) in my life....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers so far...I did answer the email he sent when he got home...with no answers, I actually wrote one...not mentioning anything about he not writing or anything, but saying I had a great time. With no answer to that, I can't email anymore...but there's the question mark. If he does not get in touch, I hope I don't see him in february when he comes back...I'll be mortified !
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Sounds like he has not been with many women. Anyway I think you should make an attempt to contact him.
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