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Have girlfriend, having sex, not attracted to men, but penises excite me, advice please?

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Question - (26 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

currently in a relationship with a girl, sexual. no problem getting it up etc, always turned on by her. Yet get turned on when i see penis. but no attraction to men. help.?

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A female reader, RaiderFanFan Canada +, writes (26 May 2010):

It's true! I am completely straight - but I love watching girls go down on girls. I think it's attached to knowing what I like being done to me. Perhaps it stimulates a feeling or a memory - but whatever it is, don't worry about it! If a hetero relationship is satisfying you right now, then you're probably just fine where you are!

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (26 May 2010):

YouWish agony auntLuckily, sexuality isn't a cut and dried thing. Don't worry about what turns you on. Some people get turned on by water faucets and patio tables!

You are okay! :)

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A female reader, cnith United States +, writes (26 May 2010):

cnith agony auntWhat does that mean... no attraction to men? Does it mean you find the idea of being attracted to a man repulsive?

That you're turned on by penises COULD mean you're bisexual. It could also mean you find them interesting.

I find women very interesting. I might even say some are downright HOT. But I don't want to be sexual with any of them. So I call myself a visual bisexual. Perhaps you are the same way. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010):

I'm a girl and I get turned on, sometimes, by boobs. It's a natural thing I'm sure. We all get excited by somethings, things that are so farfetched that not even we understand it. I think we all get turned on by the same sex, but are not attracted to them. There is no help, it's just natural.

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A female reader, pollina Mexico +, writes (26 May 2010):

have you ever been wih a guy? maybe youre bisexual and you dont know it yet...theres no harm in trying it..maybe your mind can get cleared up...try it

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