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female
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30-35,
*ucy11
writes:Ok well,I met a guy around the end of November,well..we started talking on facebook and i really started to like him. we met up in January after he had come back from his holiday and i thought it went really well but we didnt see each other since apart from at a bar but i didnt really speak to him,and at a concert..but every day we used to talk to each other,as soon as we got up till the moment we fell asleep,we used to stay up till morning so we could talk to each other..but i never thought that he liked me as much as i liked him. i just convinced myself that someone as amazing as him could never like me..But a few weeks ago..he told me he had moved on from me,because he felt like i was just leading him on,and he thought i didnt like him and i'd changed from the girl he first started talking to..and then i saw he'd got a girlfriend. he's really indy and loves beatles etc,just like me,but then his new girlfriend is completely opposite to him,i just dont understand how he could like me and then move onto someone completely different...I was so upset,i still am and it feels like this hurt is never going to go awayI looked at old texts from him,and he used to say he loved me,and when he went on holiday he texted me even though it cost him loads to make sure i was alright..and it was just so obvious..I don't know what to doIt hurts me sooo so much to think that he didnt do anything because he thought that i had changed,but the truth is..i was just trying to impress him because i never felt good enough for himI don't know whether to move on from him or not,or wait till he might split up with his girlfriendI havent had a relationship for 2 years because i used to like this teacher..i know i know..stupid.But this is why this other guy means so much to me,because he was the one who showed me i could trust people again and let people into my life..I really need help,should i move on?
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reader, hope_i_could_help  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Yes! I think you should move on. Liking a guy like that is not worth it. If he already forgot you then you should too. And besides, he changes his taste really fast.
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