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writes:I am in a long distance relationship .We have been together for 6 months. We fly to see each other every 4 weeks but talk and text almost every day. My problem is... usually we text each other good morning. Lately I have been recieveing 2 or 3 good morning, good morning babe, good morning hun and good morning sweetheart. I thought it was strange seeing they were coming a hour apart. So I made a comment a couple of days ago, stating I think you text the wrong person, you already said good morning to me. I have made a mistake before and replied to the wrong text anyway. He is taking this sooo way over the edge. He is pissed and wont talk to me. He's mad because I stated he was texting other women. I said I wasnt accusing, just stating I think you replied to the wrong text message. But his reaction to all of this is now making me wonder. He seems like now he wants to break up over this. I am not sure what to think? any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): anger and threats are signs of feeling guilty. i went through this. he was cheating. be careful and don't bother checking phone you either trust him or you don't
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Sometimes a guilty man reacts harshly when his dirty little double-life has just been discovered. Don't say another word but the next time he's in the shower, check his phone for text messages to and from other women or strange messages you know he didn't send to you. You may figure out why he's acting so weird.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 March 2010):
He's threatening to dump you over a joke?
The guy clearly has issues.
Send him a long grovelling email / letter explaining it was a joke and saying you never meant to hurt him.
If he gets over it and decides to be an adult about it then great. If he continues to act like a sulky teenager then you are probably better off without him anyway. Who needs the hassle?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (14 March 2010):
Just apologize for a joke gone bad. Tell him its hard on you being so far away. I once did the same to my LD boyfriend and he was upset that I didn't trust him. So just take responsibility for your actions so you can move forward. Its unlikely that he would send 4 wrong messages to you.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 Maybe he didn't get your response so he's texting you over and over again? He thought it's insulting that you think he would make a mistake like that, or he's texting other women. I am not a texting person. If you don't like this method of communicating let him know. Texting is convenient, at the same time caused so many fights and miscommunications between loved ones. This is not a relationship breaker. He needs to know he's trusted.
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