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Is this hate towards me, or just towards a race?

Q.   I'm a muslim, and my boyfriend or ex is Catholic. Anywhere we go or anyone he hangs out with he says I hate "paki's"..all indian's he calls paki's. I have indian in my blood when I tell him that he goes but your Guyanese so that doesn't matter. ...

A.   28 March 2011: Evertyone of you are correct. You what really touches me, is that it feels that you all know him. Each and everyone of you described him to the Tee...He said that our kids will learn to respect both religion...Then he said "I don't want to be one of ... (read in full...)

Was I wrong to get engaged so soon?

Q.   So heres the issue...my girlfriend and I have been daring for 2 years and have been engaged for about a year...thing is she wants to get married pronto, and I just want to chill out and be engaged for like another year...was I wrong to get engaged ...

A.   28 March 2011: Frist when you got engaged did you two talked after about how long you should wait before tieing the knot. I don't think that you have made a mistake at all. If you know that you want to spend the rest of your life with her then there is no mistake. ... (read in full...)

My soon to be ex husband is moving on so quickly and I'm confused

Q.   So I am having issues coping with my feeling here. I was married for 8 years to a very wonderful father of our 2 kids but a really crappy and neglecting husband. It was wrong but I ended up having an emotional affair with a colleuge of mine. We ...

A.   28 March 2011: I am sure this must be painful for you. I've never been married but I can speak from what I went through with my ex. People make mistakes, as no one in this world is perfect. Over time people feelings change. I believe strongly in faith. To you it ... (read in full...)

My B/f accuses me of cheating on him and builds up scenarios....when I'v done nothing at all!!

Q.   I've been with my Argentine boyfriend on and off for 11 years. At first the relaionship was running smooth, gradually he would avoid me. I wouldn't hear from him in days sometimes weeks. When I call him he doesn't answer or his sister would tell me ...

A.   28 March 2011: Yes I have been told many times that he has be programed..especially after so many, many years. He bluntly told that he went to a physic, and that he has writen my name in a book. I do personal question his love. He the sweetest and loving person, ... (read in full...)

My B/f accuses me of cheating on him and builds up scenarios....when I'v done nothing at all!!

Q.   I've been with my Argentine boyfriend on and off for 11 years. At first the relaionship was running smooth, gradually he would avoid me. I wouldn't hear from him in days sometimes weeks. When I call him he doesn't answer or his sister would tell me ...

A.   27 March 2011: I'm Guayanese and my bf is half Argentinian/Italian. I love him and I know that he loves me but we tend to fight too, too much. We are 11 years apart, he met me when I was 16/17. We have more fights than good times. He tells me that he knows that I ... (read in full...)

My B/f accuses me of cheating on him and builds up scenarios....when I'v done nothing at all!!

Q.   I've been with my Argentine boyfriend on and off for 11 years. At first the relaionship was running smooth, gradually he would avoid me. I wouldn't hear from him in days sometimes weeks. When I call him he doesn't answer or his sister would tell me ...

A.   27 March 2011: I used to be happy always, but I hit the point where I feel like he is the only one for me. I lost who I am. I feel I have to be the person he wants. He tells me that when we are apart he is always at home, and doesn't go anywhere, but then he turns ... (read in full...)

He owned up. He sent sick texts. is he crazy or obsessed with me or both?

Q.   Two years ago my boyfriend and I had split. Even though we were apart for some time, I always felt somehow we would get back together. I stayed at home hoping that he would call, as I didn't want to meet anyone else, plus i don't want him to star...

A.   27 March 2011: Thank you all for your input. I have told him that he should get help, and that I was willing to go with him. He tells me he is fine and he needs no help as he thinks I am the one that needs it. Our relationship is getting worser and worser every ... (read in full...)

Should I give us a chance to be friends? Did he even cared about me?

Q.   I've meet this guy about 10 years ago, we used to work with eachother. He's 11 years older than I am. Few years back we started dating. Things were really good, until gradually he was start saying that age is a problem, and he feels that I wou...

A.   12 August 2009: I've finally given my ex his answer to friendship. I him that friendship will never work out for us. Plus the fact that he hates me, a friendship will never last. I told him that we have come to the end of our road.... (read in full...)

Should I give us a chance to be friends? Did he even cared about me?

Q.   I've meet this guy about 10 years ago, we used to work with eachother. He's 11 years older than I am. Few years back we started dating. Things were really good, until gradually he was start saying that age is a problem, and he feels that I wou...

A.   8 August 2009: Thank you guy as frist I was thing that maybe something is wrong with me, since that is how he makes me feel.... (read in full...)

Give him the boot or no?

Q.   Hi and thank-you very much for reading my question =) .. I have been going out with this guy for 9 months now. I've been falling in and out of love with him because he's changed a lot throughout the past months. He also started to randomly talk to ...

A.   7 August 2009: It sounds like this guy may end up following the partner of his family.. You got signs to move on from the shoving and hitting part. If I was you I end the relationship and let him find his own place. You don't need violence in your life, believe ... (read in full...)

Questions about sex!

Q.   I'm not sure what is wrong with me? After sex, I don't want to see the person anymore or have any sort of contact with them. I don't even care if they don't want to ever see me again as well. When they do contact me, I feel so disgusted and I end up ...

A.   7 August 2009: It sounds like a one night stand, more about sex and anything else. Maybe you should try to get to know the person before rushing into sex. At least you would get to know more about them other than the sex part. Getting to know someone can change ... (read in full...)

I want to lose my virginity but I'm afraid of being 'bad' in bed. Any advice?

Q.   Im dating this guy who is a little older than me. he is the nicest person in the world, and i do belive i love him. i trust him. etc. and i think im ready to lose my virginity to him. but as hes a bit older hes had experince with girls and i dont ...

A.   7 August 2009: You should have a talk with your boyfriend. if he's a understanding person then you should be ok. Take your time, don't rush into sex too fast. I wouldn't say that anyone is bad at sex, everyone just have different ways of doing things, ... (read in full...)

In a LDR, do you think this is worth it?

Q.   Its been 8 months now since I first met my boyfriend, we started going out as friends and only having a good time, things happened and now Im inlove but im in new jersey and his in key west.I fly to see him at least once a month for 3 days he has a...

A.   7 August 2009: First and foremost you say that your in love, but is he in love with you? Sounds like he doesn't want to rush things, which is usually a good thing. Sometimes if you push/rush things, you may fall fast. Tell him how you feel, and hear what he has ... (read in full...)

I'm at the end of my tether with our relationship! What should I do?

Q.   I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months now and i really am not happy anymore. I love him to pieces but he is always making me feel small. I have to go home whenever he wants to see one of his friends. I cant be there ...

A.   7 August 2009: This sounds very familiar. From the sound of this, he doesn't deserve you at all. You deseve better, and need to be with some that will respect you, love and cherish you. If he truly cares for you he wouldn't make you go home, just to see his ... (read in full...)

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