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Friend is saying stuff behind my back, is this a good friend?

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Question - (2 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I'm not gonna mention real names so the friend I'm disliking will be "A" and the friend I like will be friend "B" and I'm "M"

Okay so I sent my boyfriend a "naughty" picture and I know it was wrong, and illegal, but I don't want to hear that and don't worry I stopped and atleast my face wasn't in the picture...but yeah sorry it was wrong I know.

But friend "B" I let her use my cell for texting cause she doesn't have one, and she saw my text and I guess opened it, so I guess she was worried so she told my I guess "ex" friend "A" about it, and she told her other friend. That I really don't like that much. About my boyfriend and how he's older then me and his name and stuff and the chick said I was "dick thirsty" O.o

Then friend "A" called "B" up and they were talking and "A" said she doesn't like me anymore, and said "Wow she's done more then us and I'm prettier then her" But that's her opinion I like the way I look I've never competed with her that way she get's so competitive about stupid things and she acts like I had sex with him and I didn't! Like before when we were friend's she'd say "M" I'm older then you and you've done more with guys then me!

And it's not like I'm gonna fess up to sending a picture out of the blue, so when I didn't know that friend "A" and "B" knew I sent the picture friend "A" tells me a story about "some girl" in our school that sent a picture of her breasts to her bf and how it's went all around the school and everyone's calling her a whore this story was fake though she was trying to get me to fess up. (And the picture was sent a few months ago before my friend found it yet nothing went around the school everything was the same)

Also friend "A" asked friend "B" is she should tell my male friend, but my male friend over heard her saying that so he's like "I know somthing about "M" that you don't know about" Then he said we'll like trade secrets. So he tells her somthing she already knew about and she tells him anyway! Does she want more dirt on me or somthing? Is she really my friend?

Then she tryed tricking me into saying I sent the picture before by texting me (I didn't have her new cell number in my phone)She said: "Are you "__" gf?"

And I said: Yeah, why?

Friend A: Nice tits :)

Me: Wtf who are you, creep?

Friend A: Your the creep that sends tit pics to people

Me: Okay wow "A" I know it's you

So she fessed up after that but wow why would she go so low and not confront me and say I know what you did? And I only sent it to my boyfriend and I trust him completely cause I got pics of him too.

So should I keep friend A? That's my main question...

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (3 July 2009):

tux agony auntYou consider A your friend? I think that the friendship ship had set sail ages ago without the both of you in it. and I would question Friend B why she even told friend A about it.. But in the end, it's just a fight of jealousy and in the end A probably has done as much as you or more but is just hiding it and will always deny it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009):

I don't see the "friend" part in "A"...not only was it not her business or her place but her way of starting drama like all those jealous girls one would see on tv isn't something I would deem as a quality of a good friend of mine, much less a friend. Not to mention her way of "fessing up" was ermm...sry not my cup of tea.

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A female reader, laura585 United States +, writes (3 July 2009):

Wow my head is spinning after a story like that! So glad I'm not in highschool anymore! But no, friends dont go around spreading rumors about each other. If a true friend saw that picture in your outbox she probably would've made a joke about it TO YOU then you 2 would've laughed and that would have been the end of it. Like that saying goes "with friends like that, who needs enemies?" I wouldn't talk to her anymore, she's not a good friend to you.

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