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male
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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 5 months and ever since we have been going out I have had nothing but grief from her. I started to be that she was texting her ex who cheated on her, then cheating on me with another guy over the internet, to hiding messages from people and txting people off of her phone with content I did not like. This continued until I found out and she couldnt believe I found out. I later found she self harms herself by cutting her wrists so I forced her to tell her mum and dad. This helped for a little time but the lying continued. We both had aggreed to delete Bebo and other social networking sites plus Messenger. She continued to do little things that annoyed me. Enough was enough. He mum and dad dont seem to care bout her or our relationship but im not sure if they wanted her in the first place. I need you advice whether to continue and give her another chance or get rid of her? Please help AsAp
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): Perhaps try and help her but forget about a relationship as she sounds like she'll only give you grief.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 hey hun, i think that this girl needs more help than she is letting on - especially if her parents are not the most understanding. she may be looking for attention and trying anything - or she may have some sort of mental illness. the need for the attention is probably the reason why she is seeking as much male attention as she can. i know this may be hard to understand, but she is probably hurting. however, her problems and issues, should not be transferring onto you and causing you pain, so i think the best thing is to stop the relationship - the pressure of it may prove to be to hard for her in the long run. tell her that even though you may not be together, you will be there for her and support her if you can. i hope this helps hun, email me if you want xxx
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reader, superbunny +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Sweetie, I think she needs help that's beyond your control. If her parents don't care about her then this may be the reason for her self harming.. She's obviously seeking attention off Bebo + all these texts + things.. I think she needs some serious help at the moment + maybe the pressure of a relationship isn't the best thing for her right now.. I hope this helps. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): She seems to ba a compulsive liar. There IS help for people like that, but I think it's time you considered your personal well-being. :) I think it's probably time you found someone more respectful and caring of your feelings. If you need to talk, hit me up.
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