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Embarrassed at the end of our first date

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Question - (19 October 2013) 7 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, *zzygurl writes:

I went on a first date with a guy yesterday we've known each other for a week, and I can tell he likes me but sometimes he's really unpredictable, well at the end of the date he kissed me on my lips like a little peck on the lips I thought he was gonna tongue kiss me I didn't know it was gonna be a little peck on the lips so I opened my mouth and tilt my head, and he was like no, are you trying to tongue kiss and I was like I'm sorry. It was really embarrassing :'( I just wanna know you opinion about the whole thing. Thanks :*

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (22 October 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntthat was my first kiss with my now husband.

"are you trying to french kiss me?"

OMG I almost died of mortification... just got in my car and left...

relax.. he still married me.

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2013):

R1 agony auntThat does sound embarrassing but he could probably tell it was just a mistake and maybe he wished he did go for a tongue kiss! I'm sure it will be fine and if he doesn't want a second date then I doubt that is the reason.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (20 October 2013):

Anonymous 123 agony auntLaugh it off! That's what you should do in these situations. Just say, "oh boy are we going to talk about this one for a while!"

Dont worry, its a cute and harmless thing...hope you enjoyed the date though :)

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (19 October 2013):

What are you worried about? It was a harmless misunderstanding.

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A male reader, no nonsense Aidan United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2013):

HE behaved like a gentleman. IT was a misunderstanding and he’ll probably think nothing more of it and neither should you. If you are both keen on each other, don’t let this get in the way of enjoying the next date.

I wish you all the very best.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2013):

Woops! Yeah, that's embarrassing, but it's not the end of the world, either. You've known the guy a week, maybe he's one of those rare guys who wants to take it slow or something. Was he just amused or was he offended?

All I can think of is to back down a little, Maybe make a joke about it next time you are saying goodbye, "Goodnight kiss? I promise I won't slip you the tongue this time."

It's awkward in the early stages of a relationship, especially since you are both just getting to know each other. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it :-D

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (19 October 2013):

Honeypie agony auntEh, stop worrying about it. It's not like you are a mind reader, right?

It could have been worse :) At least it shows you wanted to KISS him back.

Chill, honey.

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