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26-29,
*ackiexoxo20
writes:Okay so me and my friend like the same guy. this guy is nice and pretty hot. and me and him flirt alot but its bothers my friend and we had fights about it so i stopped. this guy told me he likes me and i told him i like him. we text and talk alot. but the problem is that my friend gets mad everytime i talk to him or look at him. once i was at a dance and i turned and looked at him and smiled and then he smiled and she was watching and then flipped on me. she says its me or him! and she has caused so much drama already. any advice anyone??? thanks.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 I agree with Nick. She should be happy for you because the guy obviously chose you over her. But you need to understand that him choosing you over her is probably what is hurting her the most. So maybe it would be good to have a girl to girl talk and find out whats realy going on and stop the drama, you know what i mean? Put youself in her shoes and she should put her self in your shoes.
Ask her if he would of chosen her would she go out with him.
If she says yes then tell her that she should have no probleme with you going out with him. I hope you guys work it out!
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reader, xnickx +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Depends on how close this friend is.
A good friend will always be there for you.
But having a good guy for a little bit, much outweighs having a bad friend for the long run.
eh, it sounds like a bad fortune cookie reading but its true. So if this girl is your best friend, agree that neither of you will date him and look for other guys. If you think the time you spend with him will be more valuable than losing this friend go that direction.
Personally, i think that your friend is being a tad selfish... after all, only one girl can have this guy, i'd think she should be happy for you.
Nick.
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