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Don't want to hurt my boyfriend, who I've been friends with for 10 years, but this other man makes me feel... Alive!

Q.   Dear cupid, i ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now . We have been friends for 10 years . But im secretly falling for some one eles and hes been wanting me for as long as me and my boyfriend have been dating. we're having a little trouble ...

A.   10 January 2006: You need to go. It's no good.If you don't "love" your boyfriend anymore, there can be no other course of action.If you don't want to sleep with him anymore then it is definately over. He will be hurt and devastated, but he will survive. Trust me h... (read in full...)

Am I too needy and insecure of my high-flying boyfriend?

Q.   Dear cupid. I hope someone out there will be able to give me some advice on my situation. I have been in the best relationship of my entire life with the man of my dreams, and we want to marry, he is currently in NY working on a project for...

A.   10 January 2006: He is the one with the problem babe, not you.When he starts pontificating just say I don't know what that is explain - but don't feel foolish for asking. Is he just trying to impress you with his supposed "superior knowledge". Knowing who invented ... (read in full...)

Went limp - thrice! - when I lost my virginity... Could masturbation have been to blame?

Q.   I am 20 years old, and am worried about what happened when I lost my virginity last night. I went limp during intercourse 3 times. I was able to last for a few good minutes between times going limp. The first time it happened was when we changed ...

A.   10 January 2006: You are a perfectly normal young man making love to a woman for the first time. It happens all the time. Mastrubation has absolutely NOTHING to do with it.Nervous, wanting to do the right thing, am I hurting her, will I come yada yada!No problems - ... (read in full...)

He has become cold...how can I get him to talk to me??

Q.   im 31 year old woman who has been going out with a man for the past 9 months. he seems to hav developed cold feet since 17 december 2005. what do i do to win him back i love him deraly. he is not talking to me i feel like screaming....

A.   10 January 2006: What happened on the 17th December? - whatever it was has upset him. Leave him be for a bit and see if he finally blurts it out OR a bit of gentle coaxing - don't push too hard or he will clam up big time. Act normally and go with the flow - he will ... (read in full...)

Not sure what to think after my girl send me a pic of her boob! Was it a honey-trap?

Q.   Hi there, Please help... I received a text last night while I was having a curry and a few beers with a mate of mine from a number that was unknown. It read, "Hi, do you fancy a $hag?" I ignored this as I am not into cheating and I lov...

A.   10 January 2006: Lighten up man! Where IS your sense of fun! Why did you not recognise the "boob" as your girlfriends????? Thats what I wanna' know! Relax and enjoy.... (read in full...)

Why can't I forget him when he doesn't seem to like me?

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months.hes 30, im 24. but after all he dumped me! i still love him and wanna be with me. but he doesnt like me that much! we had lots of problems in our friendship because he has never got close to me like other ...

A.   10 January 2006: Older man syndrome?! Sophisticated,charming, a bit of cash to flash,maybe. You all starry eyed at making this charming man see little you? Now he doesn't want you - the swine!We always want what we can't have, don't we? Think about it - he is not ... (read in full...)

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